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Any flirting tips to make my crush mine?

arianacastro1993 asked:

So i have been crushing on my best friend who is a guy
we been close friends since last year
he was always there for me and cared for me as well and that why i started to like him
problem is i never been in a relationship so i don’t know nothing of this
how do i get his attention as more than a friend
any flirting tips?

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Usher – Seduction

jmarz asked:


Probably gonna be the last music video i make, gonna start doin some original stuff

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Laid Off or Fired : Now What?

Jim Willis asked:


So….you’ve been laid-off, fired, whatever you want to call it. A mix of harsh emotions are probably stirring around inside you. So, what should you do now? First, realize this may be a dream come true. Seriously, every time I’ve been fired or laid-off, it’s ended up being a blessing in disguise. I’ve always ended up in a new position that either pays more or is a lot more fun than the old career.

First things first, adjust your attitude. This is no time to feel sorry for yourself. There is more opportunity in this country than you may know. Open your mind to opportunities you may not have ever considered. For example, just because you’ve been an accountant for 10 years, doesn’t necessarily mean you must find an accounting position. Maybe you’d do well in a sales position or get into pest control. You could always use your accounting skills as a freelancer in the evenings to keep those skills polished. So, look at this layoff as an opportunity! Your ex-employer may well have given you a blessing in disguise!

Let’s take care of some things right away, before you even start a job search. Apply for unemployment. Have no guilt about it. Unemployment is not a gift from the government. It’s not welfare. Your past employer has been paying into an unemployment account to cover you should this layoff happen to you. Claim it…it’s yours! No reason to feel guilty about it. In some cases, you can apply over the phone. The US Department of Labor is a good place to start. Note….state laws vary, but unemployment generally starts after your last payment from your former employer; so if you received a severance package, don’t expect to receive your first unemployment check until that severance package ends.

If your former employer provided health benefits, you should begin shopping for health insurance. Sure, your employer has offered you Cobra, but you want to drop that as soon as you can. It is too expensive. If you shop around, you can find reasonable coverage at a reasonable cost. Do not take this lightly, especially if you have children! Check out eHealthInsurance for some good coverage and fair coverages.

Your next step should be to update or write a good resume. There’s isn’t room in this article to go into all the details and tricks to writing an effective resume. Try to keep the resume down to one or two pages. Too much detail can put off potential employers. Employers want to be able to get a quick overview, not read a book. Try to emphasize your skills, not every detail of each job you’ve held. If you want to put together the most effective resume, check out Resume Rabbit. I’ve used the before and they were very effective.

One trend you may find in our current economic scene is employers laying off employees only to replace them with contract employees. Companies will do this for a couple of reasons. The employer doesn’t need to provide contract employees with benefits and doesn’t need to contribute income taxes. If a contract employee isn’t working out, the employer simply tells the contractor there services are no longer needed and finds another contractor. No counseling is required, no documentation. This trend could provide an opportunity for you. Check with temp agencies. Who knows, you might find yourself in the position you were laid off from!

Another option for you to consider in internet marketing. I currently hold a full time position, but have worked part time to eventually match my current salary, just with internet marketing. I don’t live beyond my current salary’s means. Just put the internet marketing money in the bank. So, what I’ve done is insulate myself from a potential layoff. I no longer fear being fired! I’ll be writing articles soon on how to make money on the internet. So, stay tuned.

So, to summarize…keep your head held high. See this as an opportunity, not a bummer. Apply for that unemployment…it’s yours! Shop for health insurance…dump the Cobra. Get that resume written sooner than later. Check with temp agencies. You may find some immediate work that will help make ends meet while you search for a new career. And look into internet marketing. It’s getting bigger and bigger!

Best of luck to you!



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Ashley’s Seduction – 10/06/08

upstairsgirls asked:


See the competition: www.youtube.com I’m not too crazy about Mutt and Sandy being “back together” so I’ve got a little plan to get Mutt with the hot and sexy Ashley. -DeeDee seduction ashley playboy bunny boobs breast sexy sex seduce tight booty butt hot costume…

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Laid Off: 5 Things You Must Do to Move on

tanas17 asked:


I was laid off in July 2001. At the height of my career, I was drawing a six figure annual income. I was the Country Sales Manager of one of the leading pharmaceutical company. When I was asked to meet with the Managing Director and the Human Resource Director one fine morning, I instinctively knew all is not well. My fear was confirmed when they told me that my position is now redundant due to the company’s recent merger. This is cruel as I have a young daughter and my wife was not on any pay roll. I was the sole bread winner.

 

Seven years on, I still hold a job, I have a small company started with two other friends and now I am also an online entrepreneur. Looking back, I can declare that being laid off is not being written off and you can have the courage to change things and you must. Right now, you don’t have to hide in a hole but rather this is the time to take action, massive action. Here are five very important steps you must take to exorcise the demon called retrenchment:

 



OVERCOME THE INITIAL SHOCK AS FAST AS YOU CAN



 

I have heard stories of denial, shock and some who just could not accept it. There are people who don’t even want to tell their spouse, they just continue with their daily routine as though nothing has happened. They would go to the park or shopping area and go back home at the usual time.

 

Taking a few days off is fine, it should help to recompose yourself. I know it is an not easy time, but you must let your ‘moaning’ last only for a very short season. The faster you get over this stage, the faster you can move on. Focus your thoughts on the future and let the past go. You can. You don’t deserve to have a stalled life.

 



GET ORGANIZED AND START CUTTING COST



 

Once you are settled down from the unpleasant encounter, start getting organized. Make a “to do list” every day. Start your search for jobs and interviews. Go www.trimedsg.com and my online business at www.simplyrichsg.com/tns. I want to put it here so that you know my own story is for real.

 

Robert Scheller said “Tough times never last. Tough people do”. How true it is. Your tough time will never outlast you. You can beat this retrenchment demon, but you must take massive action and in the end it will be alright. Set the motion going now! Stay focus and never, never waver. My best wishes to you and when you do feel down as all humans do, once in a while, remember you are never alone. God bless.

 



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Text Flirting Tips That You Need to Know

Francis Githinji asked:


Text flirting tips are pretty essential if you want to make a good impression when you are flirting. Text messages have become very popular and, you need to know one or two things that will enable you perfect your text flirts. First, let me begin by saying that people love flirting through text. Millions of text messages go out throughout the world everyday with flirty implications. Therefore, take time to learn and, you will not be disappointed. The Internet has great tips that you need to check out. Some of the great text flirting tips that I’m talking about include the following. It is vital to start by sending the text to the right person. This might be a bit confusing but very relevant nevertheless. You flirt with someone whom you have romantic feelings for. This is the only way that you are going to make your flirt real and special. Also, flirt with somebody you are on a good page with. This leads me to my next text flirting tip. This is where you need to take time to read the mood.

Some people are known to flirt with mates they have angered in one way or another. If you do not want to set yourself up for disappointment, you need to keep the air clear. Make sure that you are in speaking terms with your partner. This way, you can expect your flirting effort to work and bear positive result. The secret to many things is simplicity. When it comes to flirting, there is no exception. Keep your text real simple and, you will not run the risk of sending stuff that cannot be understood. Another thing is delayed replying. I know it sounds mean but, very attractive. Appearing to be available at the blowing of a whistle will make you look lame. Keep some mystery and, make yourself very scarce. This way, you will keep the relationship on its toes and exciting. You can delay for a few hours or a few days. When you finally reply, the other person will appreciate your presence more. The other tip that you will agree with me is vital, is as follows. You are allowed to carry on a sexual tone of any magnitude.

This is because you are having a personal talk that needs to enjoy all the advantages that other methods of messaging do not offer. Text flirting tips have a way of improving the mood in any relationship. In turn, you will build even stronger relationships. If your woman says that you are too sexual, never apologize for it. This is part of the game that you are playing, when you consented to send each other the texts. It is vital for you to be natural and original. Make your feelings known as you receive them from your heart. sending a text continues to prove very addictive and, you will enjoy every minute of it. As you perfect your act, you will realize that there is nothing too difficult when it comes to flirting through text. The above are some the major flirting tips that you need to know about.



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Cruel Intentions – Seduction of Cecile

davenry007 asked:


Sebastien Valmont seduces his sister’s rival, Cecile Caldwell.

How To Be The Ultimate Bad Boy Women Jealously Compete And Fight For

Rodrigo Rehn asked:


The expression, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder is 100% accurate. What is it about slight variations in facial and body structure that make one person better than the next? Its the way the viewer perceives them.

In fact, modern science is beginning to show us that we dont actually see anything with our eyes. What actually happens is that we gather information from our eyes and create an image in our brain based on millions of variables stemming from social conditioning and pre-conceived notions.

More proof that you are really no different than Brad Pitt comes when we examine the historical perception of beauty. In Ancient Egypt, fat men were considered extremely attractive, as it indicated that the person was rich enough to afford a lot of food and avoid physical labor.

While we spend time on the beach working on our tan, in the early Mediterranean societies women were seeking out pale men. This was an indication that a man was wealthy and didnt have to work outside. In fact, people used to cover their entire bodies when going outside to avoid getting tan.

If a woman of today sees you having yellow teeth shell assume you have bad breath and you dont take care of yourself. In Japan and Europe there was a time when men would dye their teeth black because women found it attractive. Sugar at the time was very expensive. Once they became aware of sugar’s ability to rot teeth, many rich, fashion-conscious people blackened their teeth to prove how much sugar they could afford.

For centuries men used to purposely scar their face because it showed that they were brave and didnt back down from battle. Women found grotesque and numerous scars on a man attractive.

Fast forwarding to modern times – based on our American standards, the people on the island were hideously ugly. An interviewer asked one of the natives if theyd like Leonardo and Giselle to stay on the island with them. Not knowing that Giselle and Leo were dating, the guy answered that hed love them to stay but theyd probably never find mates because they are so ugly.

This guy actually thought that these two American icons of beauty were the ugly ones! Yes -you are as good looking as Brad Pitt. Thats the good news. The bad news is that women of our time and culture are socially conditioned by everything around them to find him more attractive than us mere mortals.

While its certainly an uphill battle to try to convince a woman that you are better looking than Brad Pitt off the bat, with proper technique you can shift her perception of beauty. Think about it this way. For every feature on him, there is some specific socially or genetically programmed reason why she finds it attractive.

Lets examine a couple of Brads features and show how eventually she can find your features equally as attractive. Lets look at his prominent cheek bones and strong jaw line and chin. In Western societies, men and women of all races often agree that a face with pronounced cheekbones and often a heavily-set jaw is physically attractive. These are currently viewed as indicative of a masculine, confident personality.

So whats the lesson to be learned about all this? If you dont look like Brad Pitt, dont worry about it. With extreme confidence and the right techniques you will actually become her new standard for beauty and masculinity. Keep this in mind.



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Joshua Uebergang asked:


One of the strongest beliefs I need to destroy is that women must have a physically attractive man. Society overemphasizes physical appearance as it pries off of men’s insecurities. Physical attractiveness in women is important for men, but guys get into relationship trouble by projecting their desires onto women.

A guy’s attractiveness towards women comes more from his personality than physical looks. I’ve heard countless stories of guys over 40 years old, bald, short, and even over 300 pounds, who date and keep very attractive women. On the contrary, I know plenty of wealthy, young, good looking men who initially attract a woman, but they don’t keep her because these guys do not have the complete package, described to you in this article.

Physical looks grabs a woman’s initial interest, but it fails to maintain any strong relationship. (Remember, I’m defining a holistic approach to what women want in men.) If that’s the case, why do tall, good looking, rich guys attract and keep beautiful women? Such men have other characteristics that attract women. They emit confidence, are challenging, and show other alpha male qualities.

If you still don’t believe a man’s personality, communication, and other non-physical aspects attract women more powerfully than tangibles, you’re a “theorist”. You theorize on what you think works and doesn’t work based on your limiting beliefs. Put your limiting beliefs aside to discover the truth.

How you communicate to a lady – and not your physical looks – determines how attracted a woman is to you in the short-term and long-term. Non-physical qualities are more important in the long-run because they determine the condition of a relationship.

Of course, there are women who only accept a man based on his looks. These women probably make up 2% of females. Don’t worry about these few women! In fact, avoid them like the plague! Their shallow personality is created from low self-esteem and other self-related problems that make them a pain to be around.

Though the characteristics described throughout this article is attractive to any woman, even shallow ones, you shouldn’t be avoiding them because they initially dislike you. I want you to avoid superficial people because they are unhealthy for anyone around them. If a potential partner adds no value to your life, and you only want them because they are attractive, then you’re the one with a shallow personality seeking to cover up a void only you can fill.

With that said, the importance of a guy’s looks for a woman is more about looking good rather than being good looking. Women get repelled by a man’s looks when he has poor hygiene, awful attire, and annoying nervous habits. These physical qualities will hold any man back from success with women – no matter the ways he learns to attract women. Repulsive breath turns off any woman.

Rather than worrying aimlessly over how good looking you are, focus on looking good. Firstly, to make better use of your looks, get some good clothes. Ask your friends what they think you could change to improve your physical attractiveness. Even better, ask a female friend what she thinks you could change. Most women will be more than happy to fix you up. If price worries you, good clothes need not be expensive. You can jump on eBay and search Google for online clothing stores to pick up bargains.

Oral hygiene is another physical aspect that must work for you instead of against you. Brush your teeth in the morning and night. Remember to brush the roof of your mouth and tongue to remove bacteria that makes your breathe smell like an unemptied disposal unit. Floss at least once a week to remove food stuck in between your teeth. Furthermore, you can rinse your mouth regularly with water, gargle salt water, and use a mouth rinse. Do what you can to prevent the build up of bacteria, which creates smelly breath.

Another physical quality any guy can improve to become more desirable to women is his health. I encourage you to workout at the gym at least three times a week to improve your strength and aerobic fitness. Hit the weights and do cardiovascular workouts to improve your vitality. The sessions will develop your endurance throughout the day, better your happiness, improve self-perceptions, and help you maintain an energetic personality.

Working out gives you psychological benefits beyond characteristics favored by women. You can overcome personal insecurities and live a happier life with regular workouts. You will emit confidence, dominance, boost your self-esteem, and improve your wellbeing – all characteristics women desperately want in a man. Anything that improves your life makes you more desirable to women.



How a Former Stuttering, Shy Nerd Cracked the Code to Flirting with Women and Creating Sexual Attraction…

Flirting Tips That Work

Francis Githinji asked:


Flirting is very vital in life and in relationships. This is because is is a beautiful language that communicates that you are into somebody. Flirting is the genesis of any romantic relationship. It is therefore very vital to learn more on what flirting really is. Most people only flirt with people they are inhterested in. This is because they want to announce to the other person that they are interested in them. Flirting tips are therefore necessary to give us a sense of direction in this regard. Flirting can either be concious or unconcious. Many people will flirt with an attractive stranger without even realizing it. Singles find themselves flirting more when they are searching for a potential mate. Some of the most common flirting tips will include the following. Flirting comes naturally and in women, there are many things that inform the man or potential partner, they are interested. First, a woman will look directly into your eyes. This look is usually with great interest and, her pupils will be dilated. Therefore, one tip that works is eye contact. It always communicates deeply to the the other person.

It is known that over 90% of all communication is non verbal. This is a very interesting fact. Another thing that ladies do when they are flirting is raising and lowering their voice to match yours. This usually takes the interest of the other person as they commnicate in greater harmony. This aspect of flirting is guranteed to make the intentions known. As a woman, you can rub your chick and chin while talkming to him. This is a common indicator that she is thinhking about you. Flirting tips will improve the love connection and establish a bond that is unique. This is always what many singles are looking for in a relationship. When a woman sticks her fingernail into her teeth, it is a sure indication of interest. Therefore as a woman, you can do this in a subtle way to ensure that the other person understands. A woman can expose the palm of her hand to face you. This is a great indicator and women shopuld also do this in a light sincere way. You should never overwhelm your love interest with too many signs. It is vital to be very sponteneous and go with a flow. You should differentiate beween flirting and sexual advances. You are not looking to make sexual advances.

Do not forget that the main reason for eye contact is to suggest confidence. It shows that you are confident enough about yourself. For a relationship to work, partners must have a sense of confidense in themselves. Another vital key to flirting is to dress smartly. Everyone appreciates someone who is clean. You are always likely to attract the same kind of people in your life. Being smart and clean attracts the other person to you. A smile goes a long way to ensure that the flirting atmosphere is light. One thing you should ensure is to have genuine interest in the other person. With little effort, you will make the connection you want.



How a Former Stuttering, Shy Nerd Cracked the Code to Flirting with Women and Creating Sexual Attraction…

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