Francis Githinji asked:


Online flirting tips are very vital. They guide you to establishing great connections with people who are of interest to you. We all need some form of guidance when it comes to online flirting and dating. It is essential for every single person to look for flirting tips before they start engaging in a relationship. The flirting impulses come naturally to us but, before we make use of them, we must master them and ensure that we have good pointers that will lead us.

The following are some of the online flirting tips that will be very helpful to your relationship. Keep in mind that the tips are free for you to absorb and use. The first thing is to ensure that you are generous with compliments. Everybody appreciates being adored and your partner will be more than delighted to receive the genuine compliments from you. You need to come off as cute in your interactions. Everyone appreciates this and they will look forward to being with you. Keep your conversation short and sweet.
There are people who find the need to go all out in conversation. You need to take a deep breath and take time as you think of the sweet things you can use to communicate with your date. Men and women might find different online dating tips but, they will generally do the same things to flirt effectively. Online flirting tips advocate for a person to represent themselves very accurately to the other person. There is nothing that puts people off more, than to discover that the other person is not what they say they are.

The other thing about flirting according to online flirting tips is to avoid sexual overtones. In reality, flirting is all about sexual impulses but, they are made in a subtle way. Being too obvious will not go well with many. Maintain a good rapport with the person you are relating to. Men should make sure they hear out the lady. This is one way that men can learn how to read the mood of the relationship. You will also find online flirting tips for people who are conducting off line relationships. The first thing is usually about the eye contact. This is the sure flirting tool that needs to be monitored well.

When somebody develops romantic feelings for you, you need to look at their eyes. Some people who are not ready to flirt will always avoid the eye contact. The eye will dilate when you are attracted to a person. People will even have staring eyes when it comes to flirting. Confidence is one of the flirting tips that will see people get what they want in relationships. Lack of confidence can be sniffed a mile away. Both men and women appreciate people who appear to know what they are doing. Make no second guesses when it comes to flirting. You must decide on it and go for it. There is no doubt that with the above online flirting tips, you will be in a position to master the art of flirting.



How a Former Stuttering, Shy Nerd Cracked the Code to Flirting with Women and Creating Sexual Attraction…

Ian Stephens asked:




 

Sales Tip No. 1: Speak their learning and languaging preference

We use all 5 senses in learning and speaking, ie sight, sound, touch, smell and taste. And yet, we are genetically hard-coded with one which is our dominant languaging preference. You can tell by listening to the words or phases people use.

 

For example:

Visual: see, looks like, picture this, view, show me

Auditory: hear, tell me, music to my ears, rings bells
Kinesthetic: feel, sense, in touch, feels solid, grasp.

 

Effective salespeople are able to  track for the persons dominant languaging preference and then match it by talking the same way. This builds incredible rapport at a sub-conscious level.

 

If a person has a visual preference, (s)he will tell you in the conversation with the words that are used… example, “I see what you mean, but I don’t have a clear picture of how it applies to me!”

BUT if you are an auditory person, you might reply “ok, well let me tell you about it again in respect to your needs, and let you hear how it applies”. You have sub-consciously snapped rapport!

 

Talk their language (visual preference), not yours (auditory preference). A better response would have been ‘Ok, well let me show you the big picture, and you will see where you fit in the overall picture”.

 

My overall advice: Track for the languaging preference and match it!

 

 

Sales Tip No. 2: Match their speed of voice!

Particularly over the phone, this is one way to create strong rapport and sameness. If you are a slow and deliberate talker, and are speaking to a fast-talker, you will snap rapport at a sub-conscious level. Speed up a touch to increase the LIKENESS. Conversely, slow down if they are a slow thinker and talker. Nothing snaps rapport faster than someone finishing your sentences for you does.

 

Sales Tip No. 3: Master the art of subtle body language – matching and mirroring

This one needs to be subtle, or it can come across as mimicking. And yet, if done well, builds very strong rapport.

Ever notice yourself adopting the same tilt of the head, or stance, or seated position as the person you are talking to? It is very nature process that occurs over time when parties are comfortable with one another.

We can fast-track rapport through the use of body language. I prefer to avoid direct copying, and apply what’s called cross-matching or mirroring. In other words, if they cross their arms, I cross my legs. If they lean on one elbow with hand in face, I just put my hand near my face. Subtle, and yet there is a LIKENESS. Again. People like people who are like them!

 

A final word… Something I pre-suppose to be true is this… There is no such thing as resistance, just insufficient rapport building! What if it is true? If a potential client is resisting, stop selling, and go back to rapport building. You have more work to do yet!

 

 

Yours in sales success

Ian Stephens - 

Australia’s No. 1 peak performance coach

 

For more sales tips & resources go the official Ian Stephens page

 

 



How To Be The Ultimate Bad Boy Women Jealously Compete And Fight For

kalu asked:


You’ve heard it time and again, the Monee’s in the list. Just about anybody with a list will tell you that. If you have your own list, you know it.

But how do you build a big list?

There are multiple methods of list building, and if you are just getting started, until you have gained mastery over one or two methods, it is advisable to use multiple methods of list building strategies.

There is some sort of special force in massive action–so do just that–use massive action. Take one of these strategies each day and take massive action with it. For example, in part 2, I cover articles. What would massive action be?

How about write 3 articles and post them to at least 100 article directories? That is massive action. Then the next day, take massive action regarding part 3, forums. Become a member or 100 forums and answer 100 forum questions everyday. And so on day after day. If you truly work at building a list and taking massive action, you can build a huge list and do it faster than you ever dreamed possible.

One thing to note here: if you are using multiple sources for your list building, track every source. Not just for traffic, but for source-specific sign-ups and for sales. You might find that one list source gives you 3x the number of sign-ups, which is exciting. But if you aren’t tracking things deeply enough, you might not know that the bulk of your sales are coming from another list, one that is a little slower to grow. Just keep that in mind. Know more about it you can visit www.list-management-secrets.com.

There are three stages to building a list:

1) Preparation. You must get a squeeze page and an auto responder sequence up and running. A squeeze page is basically a web page that has a brief introduction, offering the reader an incentive to join your list. Perhaps you are offering an online course or a free ebook or a free tool for their business. After that brief introduction and call to action, you will have an opt-in form, provided by your auto responder service, to collect names and email addresses.

For your auto responder sequence, unless you already have product to pitch, you should just send the subscribers useful information every few days. If you do not have a main web site or product yet, that is OK, just send an email once or twice a week with useful information. For more details you can login to www.build-own-list.com. You could even send them the articles that you write in part 2. But you must keep in touch with them, because if you add them to your list today and then don’t mail them for two months, they will not recognize you and they will see you as SPAM. Bad. So write once or twice a week, and you will build rapport with them.

2) Getting in front of qualified subscribers. You see, I say qualified, because any old name on your list is not what you are looking for. You want people on your list who are genuinely looking to improve themselves, their business, or their hobby. How do you do this? In each of the list building strategies that you employ, be sure and offer people great content, not just a free gift.

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How To Create Instant Attraction With Any Woman

nancy :] asked:


im going tomorrow and idk if hes gonna show up or not cuz he said he needs to find a ride first.. do u think he’ll show up?
but what are some good tips on flirting with him while watching the movie??
& my ex boyfriend might be there and he still likes me so will it make things awkward?? (my crush likes me too)
my best friend will be there too so will it make things better?

How To Create Instant Attraction With Any Woman

Jason Wier asked:


It is usually in a “Buyers” property market that the opportunity to engage a professional pre-purchase building inspector becomes more prevalent. The lack of competition between buyers and the overall lower level of positive sentiment for the market, generates a sense of increased caution and fear.

During a buyer’s market it becomes more common for property sales to fall apart because a building inspector has reported on defects or faults that would normally be considered minor or typical for age. In a buyers market there is more stock to choose from and “another opportunity” is always around the corner.

In a “Sellers” market the buyer’s are in almost a race to purchase and their actions are fuelled by competition for their slice of the property profits pie. It becomes more common for buyer’s to neglect the importance of spending a few hundred dollars for an independent and impartial opinion of a building’s condition.

During a Seller’s market it is more common for buyer’s to still proceed with a sale, even when building reports have identified repair and maintenance works that would be considered significant. In a Seller’s market there is not enough property to go around each property auction could be the Buyer’s “last opportunity” to enter the market.

Before a buyer in any property market sets out to engage the services of a building inspection service, they should have clearly identified parameters for the expense they are willing to pay beyond the purchase price and legal costs. It’s not reasonable to expect that nothing will go wrong within the first 12 months. Even something as simple and common as a hot water service failure can cost a $1000 dollars to replace.

If you have seriously assessed and set your limit on repair costs at $10,000 and discover through a professional building inspection it is more likely to be $30,000 then you need to consider pausing the process, is further negotiation an option or should you be pursuing another property.

If you are having trouble assessing what a reasonable sum of money is to have set aside for likely repairs of your next purchase you should seek the advice of a local building inspector. Ask them what the typical defects are for homes in the area you are intending to buy? Ask if they can tell you, the most common maintenance required? Ask if you can have a ball park estimate of the average repair costs required of homes in the local area? Try to get tips or hints on what particular areas of the property should require close attention during your first inspection.

If you can get a local experts picture of what defects or maintenance to expect then you will be better prepared to assess the results of an inspection typical for the location. If you can build rapport with a local inspector you will also find, that when it comes time to get it professionally inspected, that by using a local inspector, they can organize to complete the inspection in a shorter space of time.



First Practical, Step-by-Step Blueprint for Talking and Flirting with Women No Matter If You?re Short, Old, Ugly, Flat-Broke, or Get Less Action Than a 40-Year Old Virgin!

sulamita berrezi asked:


“Opposites attract” is a law of attraction, at least where electromagnetism is concerned. But are there laws about attraction between two people? “In a world that is full of strangers” as a line in a famous song of the 1980’s goes, is there a clear set of rules that allows two people to fall for each other?

Is attraction a matter of chemistry?

Maybe. According to scientists, the attraction between animals of the opposite sex is all about chemicals called pheromones. The effect of pheromones in behavior of insects is the most studied to date. It has been observed, at least in some experiments, that pheromones are responsible for communication among same species and colony of ants. The horrible odor released by skunks to ward off enemies is said to be a kind of pheromone. Some species of apes rub pheromone-containing urine on the feet of potential mates to attract them. Some scientists believe that animals (usually the females) such as insects and mammals send out these chemical signals to tell the male of their species that their genes are different from theirs. This gene diversity is important in producing offspring with better chances of survival. The perfume industry has capitalized on pheromones as a means to increase one’s sexual attractiveness to the opposite sex. Animals such as the whale and the musk deer were hunted down for these chemicals.

Lately, scientists are looking into the existence of human pheromones and its role in mate selection. There are many conflicting views in the realm of biology, chemistry, genetics, and psychology. Most scientists would assert that these do not exist, or if they do, do not play a role in sexual attraction between a man and a woman. But new researches such as that conducted by Swiss researchers from the University of Bern led by Klaus Wedekind are slowly making these scientists rethink their stand. Their experiment involved women sniffing the cotton shirts of different men during their ovulation period. It was found out that women prefer the smell of men’s shirts that were genetically different, but also shared similarities with the women’s genes. This, like in the case of insects and other mammals, was to ensure better and healthier characteristics for their future children. But researchers also cautioned that preference for a male odor is affected by the women’s ovulation period, the food that men eat, perfumes and other scented body products, and the use of contraceptive pills.

Does personality figure in sexual attraction?

Yes, but so does your perception of a potential mate’s personality. According to a research conducted by Klohnen, E.C., & S. Luo in 2003 on interpersonal attraction and personality, a person’s sense of self-security and at least the person’s perception of his/her partner were found to be strong determinants of attraction in hypothetical situations. What does this tell us? We prefer a certain personality type, which attracts you to a person. But aside from the actual personality of the person, which can only be verified through close interaction through time, it is your perception of your potential partner that attracts you to him/her, whether the person of your affection truly has that kind of personality or not. This could probably account for a statement commonly heard from men and women on their failed relationships: “I thought he/she was this kind of person.”

So how does attraction figure in relationships?

You have probably heard that attraction is a prelude, or a factor towards a relationship. Most probably, at least in the beginning; but attraction alone cannot make a relationship work. It is that attraction that makes you notice a person from the opposite sex, but once you get to know the person more, attraction is just one consideration. Shared values, dreams, and passions become more significant in long-term relationships.

So should I stop trying to become attractive?

More than trying to become physically attractive, work on all aspects of your health: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Physical attraction is still a precursor. Remember, biology predisposes us to choose the partner with the healthiest genes. Where your emotions are concerned, just ask this to yourself: would you want to spend time with a person who feels insecure about him/herself? Probably not! There is wisdom in knowing yourself: who you are, your beliefs, values, and dreams. And do not pretend to be someone you are not. Fooling another person by making him/her think that you share the same values and beliefs is only going to cause you both disappointments. When you are healthy in all aspects, attractiveness becomes a consequence and not an end. As mentioned in the Klohnen and Luo’s research, a person’s sense of self-security matters, perhaps even beyond attraction. But remember: do these things for yourself and not for other people. Only then can you truly harness your attractiveness as a person.



How To Create Instant Attraction With Any Woman

Adrianne Sedgwick asked:


Whether you like it or not, good looks do matter. And this is especially true if you are female. You see, it’s true what they say, men are more visual, as opposed to women who are more cerebral and tactile. As this is so, there is more pressure on your part to look attractive.

Men’s Preference for Good Looking Women has Its Evolutionary Roots

Men’s tendency to prefer women with good looks has its evolutionary roots. You see, good looks are associated with physical health which is then associated with reproductive health. Men’s ability to produce an offspring, on the other hand, is less associated with physical attractiveness.

Aside from attractiveness to the opposite sex, looking good has many other implications. Physical attractiveness has many social effects. Attractive people tend to be ahead in the social sphere. Good-looking men and women do better in their professional lives – less attractive people (based on self-perception) tend to earn 13% less then attractive people. They also get treated better by people of authority and tend to marry into prominent families.

What Makes for an Attractive Person?

But what makes for an attractive person? People’s perception of physical attractiveness stems from a combination of universal standard of beauty, culture-specific judgment of beauty, and personal subjective preference.

On a universal level, good looks are associated with good health. Basically, people with lustrous hair, clear skin, clear eyes, and symmetrical features (all of which signify health) are considered attractive.

Perception of Beauty Varies

Perception of beauty varies more on a cultural level. Some cultures prefer thinner women while others find voluptuous women more attractive. Some cultures give more preference to lighter, fairer skin, while others like it dark or tanned.

Preference for physical attractiveness also varies in individuals. Social status and bearing have a lot of influence on this. As statistics would have it, those at a higher status in the Western setting prefer thinner and leaner women, while those at a lower class status prefer voluptuous women with bigger busts.

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But then again, these are general findings and they don’t necessarily tell what kind of women that hot guy you have a big crush on prefers. One thing’s for sure though. You do have to take care of yourself. You must keep yourself looking good because whether you like it or not, it is important for your social existence.

So go on ahead and start pampering yourself. First things first, you must take care of your health. Remember, it’s the one major factor associated with good looks and is the main reason why men developed such preference for beauty. Some of the most obvious signs of good health in women are shiny hair, clear skin and eyes, and a healthy figure.

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Also, you must feel good about yourself. You must feel comfortable with the way that you are. Your feeling of confidence and contentment is bound to radiate on your appearance. You will not fail at attracting people with this.

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How To Be The Ultimate Bad Boy Women Jealously Compete And Fight For

Michael Dat asked:


Emotional attraction, sexual attraction and physical attraction are just some of the few attractions that you have heard of before. All these attraction are just part and parcel in the dating scene.

These attractions comes to you naturally so there is no need for you to feel worried if you think that you are unable to create any form of attraction with the woman you are talking to. However, there are actually ways on how to trigger emotional attraction with women. You will be surprised at how easy it is.

Emotional attraction is one of the reasons marriage lasts. It keeps the relationship going strong regardless of what the situation is. Yes, it is also the reason why long distance relationships work. Emotional attraction also results in “falling in love”. It might seem a little melodramatic; to be in and out of love, but emotional attraction does really exists.

Imagine. A gaze can be equivalent to a touch when you are emotionally attracted to the person. People who are emotionally attracted can talk to hours and never get bored of each other’s presence. They will feel sincere with their thoughts and feelings and would feel very comfortable chatting with you. By establishing emotional attraction, you are bringing Love to another dimension, and hence making the relationship last even longer.

Nuff said. Movies make falling in love seem all too easy. In reality, much more work is definitely needed to make sparks fly. But if you are man, then you must be very lucky. Women in general are pretty easy to please. With just a praise, you can leave a girl blushing.

The root of emotional attraction with women is to be the gentleman that every woman wants. Every guy sure has a soft side to him no matter how tough a man you are.

To be the ideal man, your body language, emotions and attitude matters a lot. Your self-confidence and attitude towards others things in life also plays an important role in establishing emotional attraction with women. No one likes to hang around with people who show introverted body language. Your body language should be one that encourages people to approach you.

A handshake, a smile or any small gesture can make a difference between positive and negative emotions. Positive emotional attitude will reward you with an aura of confidence and amiability, which is the key to any kind of attraction. Soon, you will be attracting girls like bees.

Emotional attraction cannot be really worked on. It is either you have it, or you don’t. You can however choose to be yourself and display positive attitude throughout. Positive attitude would also mean in terms of your language, behavior and attitude. Do this and you will be dripping with charm and women will start to trail after you.

Emotional attraction is a sacred attraction that is supposed to be shared between two special people. It is something that should not be taken lightly as emotional attraction can also lead to a lifetime commitment.

Share this emotional attraction with someone whom you think is your ideal partner, and enjoy the secrets of life together.



How To Create Instant Attraction With Any Woman

Carolyn Bushong asked:


Flirting is a skill that is learned through practice. But when my clients come into my office and ask me how to meet men and what to do when they see someone they want to meet, they often don’t have a clue how to start flirting. They then say they’re too shy and could never be the one to approach. I ask them, like Dr. Phil does, “How’s that working for you so far?” Then they’re more eager to learn to flirt.

Women are afraid to flirt because they fear rejection. When flirting is done properly, it comes across so unintentional that rejection shouldn’t be an issue. If someone doesn’t seem reciprocal in your flirtatiousness, you can simply think (or say), “You must have just misinterpreted my intentions. I wasn’t flirting with you,” and go on about your way. As long as you flirt indirectly, and not too obviously, you’ll always be able to save face if it doesn’t work.

8 Flirting Tips for Women

1) Have friendly body language. Smile, act confident, gaze at him, and keep your arms open or to your side (but not crossed). Women often don’t realize that when they are scared, they often look angry or irritated and completely unapproachable. Relax and fake friendliness and confidence, even if you don’t feel it. Only then will he consider approaching you.

2) Act like you’re having fun when you see him. Talk and laugh with your friends, laugh into your cell phone with a friend, even smile if you are reading (so he’ll wonder why). You want to send the message that you have a wonderful life full of wonderful friends that he might like to be a part of.

3) Dress the part: dress and act sensual, and dress to stand out. Don’t dress too sexy or flashy, but show your figure or best asset. Don’t be outlandish, but choose something your friends or coworkers have noticed and commented on. It also works to wear an unusual piece of jewelry, a scarf, some red high heels, etc., so he can have a reason to say, “Great shoes!”

4) Be approachable, not only in attitude, but literally. Men don’t want to (and often won’t) come over to you and your girlfriends. When you’re out with your friends, find a reason to move about alone, i.e., walk past him to get a drink from the bar, or take the long way to the bathroom. When you do, look your best of course, i.e., hold your stomach in, arch your back so your chest pushes out, keep your head high and let your hips sway sexily.

5) Don’t wear any rings. It doesn’t matter what kind of rings you wear, don’t wear them. When men walk past a woman quickly, they’ll keep going if they see anything that looks remotely like a wedding band. They don’t have time to think, “Which hand and which finger was that ring on?”

6) Offer up free information about yourself, i.e. “I just love this bookstore!” or “I’ve had a long day and I’m tired of waiting for this bartender!” “God it’s hot in here!” This gives him an opportunity to talk to you without having to be the one that starts the conversation.

7) Ask simple questions, i.e. “What time is it?” or “How’s the food here?” Again, he has to answer you, and then the conversation has begun. You are so indirect, however, that rejection for you should not be an issue.

Say something funny like, “I’m taking a survey and want to know…..,” or “Can I interest you in …(pause, as if you are going to say “a drink,” then say something like “a puppy, my dog just had puppies?” It works especially well if you can come up with something funny that relates to the moment, like, “Don’t tell me, you’re really the father of Anna Nicole’s child, aren’t you?”

8 Flirting Techniques for Women

1) Touching yourself, i.e. touching or twirling your hair, licking your lips, or hugging yourself. This is an indirect sexual comeon.

2) Touching him lightly, i.e. your body brushing against him lightly and/or picking lint from his shirt. This sends a message of familiarity (that you are now developing).

3) Laughing and/or talking animatedly when you know he’s watching. It especially works when he knows you’re watching and knows you have the intent to impress him, so glance at him once in awhile as you laugh and talk.

4) Head toss (flipping your head back so your face tilts forward in the light.) The movement hopefully catches his eye, and as it does, your face catches the light and he can see how attractive you are.

5) Primping, like putting on lipstick or smoothing or patting down your clothing. Men love to watch women put on lipstick. It also says, “I’m trying to look my best for you.”

6) Object caress i.e. lovingly caressing an object such as a ring, or slide your palm up and down the stem of your wine glass. This is a very sexual message that also says “I’m a very sensual person and we could be doing this to each other.”

7) Offer him something or ask for something, i.e. a match, a newspaper, an item on the top shelf. This forces some sort of interaction in case he hasn’t noticed you yet.

Move near him (within 2 feet). Order a drink next to him at the bar, decide to buy radishes at the market to be able to reach over him, or even just stand there and give him the opportunity to approach you. Maybe he’s nearsighted or hasn’t seen you because he’s been engrossed in a cell phone call (business we hope). This way you’ll make sure he hasn’t overlooked you.

Flirting With a Happy Ending

Years ago, I had a roommate who was shy and never met men. I had started teaching my “flirting” seminars and decided to share some of the information with her for free before she went out one night. She walked into a bar and saw a guy she was attracted to. She walked up to him, acting like she was waiting for someone (which she wasn’t), and asked him what time it was (I told her not to wear a watch so she could use this technique). They started talking and dating, and 6 months later she moved out because she was engaged! That’s my best flirting story, although I have many more!



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