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kum2584 asked:


This is one of my favorite songs. Enjoy! Kumar Ellawala

How To Be The Ultimate Bad Boy Women Jealously Compete And Fight For

Michael Lee asked:


Men always find dating fun, especially when they get to sample a few techniques to attract a girl. But there are a few men who fear rejection so much that they miss out on the fun in the entire dating scenario.

If you’re one of these men, then you need to ease yourself up a bit until you experience more success in dating women. It is not rocket science. Just apply the simple techniques to attract a girl in this article that suits your own dating style, and you will find the next few steps that much easier.

Techniques To Attract A Girl # 1: Body Language

Flirting or teasing are two of the more common techniques to attract a girl. When a woman discovers that you have the same level of attraction, she will eventually open up.
Some flirting signals include maintaining eye contact around 70% of the time (but don’t stare), smiling genuinely, and leaning closer to her.

Be careful when choosing the body language or gestures you use, as you might risk sending the wrong message. Opt for body language or flirting gestures that does not give out much, as it will cause a woman to become more intrigued about you.

Techniques To Attract A Girl # 2: Be Funny

A good sense of humor is often cited as one of the best ways to captivate a woman. Aside from being physically attractive and confident, women like men who can make them laugh. It reflects the level of optimism that a guy possesses and also creates the impression that the guy does not take himself too seriously.

Funny pick-up lines effectively breaks the gap between two people and make a great opening point for a good conversation.

Techniques To Attract A Girl # 3: Show Indifference

Women are often drawn towards guys who are hard to get. It does not even matter if he is merely playing hard to get. Women love the challenge of trying to capture a guy’s attention.

Therefore, you can make your life easier by avoiding the image of desperation. After all, it also reflects your level of self-confidence since you do not necessarily have to chase women as they come to you instead.

To summarize, here are the 3 useful techniques to attract a girl: use body language, be funny, and show indifference. Now go out there and get your dream girl.



How To Be The Ultimate Bad Boy Women Jealously Compete And Fight For

Shannon Matthews asked:


Chances are if you are reading this article you fall into a sub-group known as the eco-sexuals. You do your part to keep the planet in good health. You care about your body, spirit, the environment and have a particular diet or lifestyle which you have made not just for health reasons but for ethical ones. Your life is in balance, the time is right, but perhaps you just haven’t found that special someone to share it with.

The dating scene is difficult: this one smokes or that one likes hamburgers, or heaven forbid you find out late into dinner, they are a Republican! You are weary from the search and ready to give your all. Perhaps you have already run the course of love with someone who didn’t think the same as you do on matters such as diet or conservation. Perhaps it drove you to separation or divorce.

Why not be picky this time? If you like doing outdoor activities or political activism, love animals and don’t eat them or use their products, if you believe in conservation, you may want to narrow the scope a bit. Did you know of those that consider themselves vegetarian, only 4% of those people are vegan? Makes meeting another vegan very difficult. With such strict dietary requirements wouldn’t it be nice to have a friend or partner on your wavelength to share ideas and meals with?

Don’t despair. There are online dating services geared toward green-living folks like you! By beginning with the simple expectation of new friendship, you can make connections with like-minded individuals and expect some interesting conversation with people around the globe.

For this article, I decided it was especially important to practice before I preached, so I joined a few green dating websites. And then the dread hit me immediately: The online dating experience is sort of akin to the stages of grief.

The first stage is when you decide to peruse the profiles out there. This can be done for free, no obligation to join. You experience a combination of disbelief, anger or self doubt. You say to yourself, “I can’t believe it has come to this. What about the romance of chance? Has dating turned into EBAY, for crying out loud? What ever happened to meeting someone face to face, the universe aligning the stars so the convergence can happen? Am I so inept I can no longer just meet people and be sociable, must I order from a catalog?”

Perhaps these statistics will be encouraging. According to her online article for MSN.com, Meredith Broussard found these facts about the world of dating:

• 44% of adult Americans are single –or over 100 million available partners.

• Of this only two percent of men and nine percent of women have found their loves at the bar. She recommends Starbucks as an alternative.

• 63% of married couples meet through a network of friends, but 40% or 40 million people meet through online dating services.

The second stage is bargaining. “Okay I’ll try this, but I won’t like it. This seems stupid and desperate, but I am sick of my mother and friends bothering me to give it a try. How many times can I have that conversation?” And as you scroll though, one profile catches your eye. So you make a bargain. “Well they don’t seem so bad. Maybe I’d err…umm…like to write them.” You need to join in order to make contact with anyone on the website, and so you do, but “just on a limited time basis,” you reassure yourself. Many of the websites give you either free trial time or profile viewing capabilities, so you can participate with no obligation to pay unless you like so this makes it easier to dive into the process.

The third stage is a mixture of fascination and embarrassment. You begin to write your profile, wondering if this stuff really will work and how to describe yourself and what you are looking for without sounding desperate or cheesy.

To get you in the proper frame of mind, London based hypnotist, Tanya Haden Tebb, recommends in her e-book about dating and relationships, How To Attract Men-The Goddess Secrets, to get right with yourself first. She recommends taking the time to look at your self in the mirror. If beauty is in the eye of the beholder, see yourself positively, love your attributes and bless them rather than focusing on your faults. She also suggests making a “man (or woman) map.” By getting the reader to list not only what attributes they want out of a partner, but also planting key words to the unconscious like, “I will know my special someone when they say this to me…” Haden Tebb says the implication to the unconscious helps one to manifest this person because of your own clarity. To read more go to www.How-To-Attract-Men.com

Green singles is run by long-time couple, Mary and Alan Shulman. It began as a newsletter in 1985 and has grown about 20 percent every year in the last three years alone. They have a high success rate of matching people with special interest which makes it hard for them to meet others with similar interests otherwise. Both hetero and homosexuals can post profiles. This list matches where their members’ interests lie:

• The earth, ecology & environment

• Peace, social justice, & equal rights for humans and animals

• Natural living & alternative medicine

• Vegetarian, organic & other healthy lifestyles

• Spirituality & personal growth

• Nature/outdoor activities

• Theatre, music & the arts

• Holistic & new age philosophies

• Green politics and world events

http://www.greensingles.com or their offshoot site, http://www.veggielove.com, (just for vegetarians and vegans) allows you to post your profile for free. You pay for contact credits, ($12 for three to begin with,) or pay for full membership in 3 month installments, (the first quarter is $24.)

Earth wise singles, http://www.ewsingles.com is another international green-dating site. It costs $14.95 for three months of membership but you can look at profiles for free.

http://www.loveisgreen.org offers searches that include polyamorous affairs for homo and heterosexuals as well.

With any on-line dating be prepared to be contacted by people who won’t match what you’re looking for—maybe even comically or horrifically so. Be nice. It’s better to respond with a “no thanks” than nothing at all. After all, people are putting themselves out there, just as vulnerably as you and courtesy makes for better karma. And don’t let this discourage you. There are many people who are members for a long time before finding their special someone, just as there are those who fall in love with the first contact they make. Member “Paul” from Green Singles writes:

I have had my profile on the site for several years. Although I met many interesting women and had some wonderful times, nothing really gelled until lately. When Pam and I met, it wasn’t love at first sight, it took about 30 seconds. We both felt that we had known each other in another life and the attraction was total. We married after knowing each other a few weeks and neither of us had done so before. She is now moving from Vermont to be with me in Canada. There is plenty of room for her horses here and she is delighted to be out of the US and in a gentler less crazy place. –Paul

One of the great things about the sites, and the experience in general, is if you widen your search, keep an open mind, you can indeed meet interesting people from all over the world. And there is something to be said in getting to know a person first through correspondences, something old-fashioned and surprisingly romantic. It takes courage to post a profile, and even more courage to contact someone whose profile you like.

If you discover you are kindred spirits, there is an excitement in sending and receiving messages and essentially starting on the foot of friendship first, as opposed to mere physical attraction. The chase can be more seductive through letters and listening to someone’s voice over the phone. Fantasy life can be extra fulfilling because one begins to believe anything can happen as you imagine, “This could be the one!”

I asked one contact In CA what attracted him to a green dating service he said:

In my marriage my wife and I drifted apart. We discovered we wanted and cared about different things. She was focused on materialistic pursuits, always getting more, whereas I care deeply about the planet and improving life, not just for myself but for the entire planet. I am sick of being set up for blind dates, you never know what you’re going to get, so I decided this time I would like to get to know like-minded individuals who share the same interests I do. After all, sexual attraction eventually fades and then you’re left sitting on the clock, so it may as well be with someone you really have a lot in common with, with whom you can share a more multi-faceted life.

Another contact said he took a marketing approach to online dating, (not in his profile but in choosing a website [greensingles.com]) He wrote:

Certain sites seem to appeal to certain segments of people and this seemed the best fit in that many of the women seemed healthy and strong in who they are and their outlook, so [its] a good place to start.

Indeed these sites are good places to start. The last stage of the process is acceptance. You become okay with putting yourself out there again, the laughs and rewards well worth it.



physical attraction

Michael Lee asked:


Flirting signals of attraction are among the clear-cut ways to know whether to make the next move or to just enjoy the friendship and the company of the other person. If used well, flirting signals of attraction could be the spark of a very rewarding relationship.

To flirt, as defined by the Oxford American Dictionary, is to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions.

While very true, flirting signals of attraction could actually just be body language signals to let the other person know that you are attracted, at the very least, or even that you are open to pursuing a relationship, at best.

Flirting signals of attraction could be anything from a smile to an increased interest in the other person. Women tend to show this attraction by making themselves more eye-catching, either through smiling, playing of the hair, and through other body language signals that make a man do a double-take.

On the other hand, men’s flirting signals of attraction include doing things to impress. Some who take pride in their bodies may show it off more often. Others, who take pride in their possessions, may flash it more. Others, who find significance in their careers, would talk more about how successful they are, in order to impress.

A woman’s asset is her beauty. More often than not, when she wants to get a man’s attention, she will show it off more often. On the other hand, if she is serious about the guy, she would take her “flirtation” to a more maternal level. Instead of showing off her beauty, she would more likely leave cookies on the guy’s table or make coffee, as a wholesome gesture of sweetness.

On the other hand, if a man is past his insecurities, the “flashiness” of trying to impress the girl by what he has won’t be his strategy. If he is serious about the girl, he will instead opt for finding out what would impress her and do just that.

Even if it may take a pot of roses to leave in her cubicle, bunch of roses sent to the girl’s mom, or even a bottle of wine sent to the girl’s dad, he will do it, because he is seriously in love.

Flirting signals of attraction take more than the body to communicate. If the person uses physical attraction to communicate the interest, it only means that he/she is after the booty call, and not for a lifetime relationship.

If he/she is after the latter, then more wholesome gestures would be used. It all boils down to: what would you want for yourself? Which would you respond to better?

It’s all in your hands.



3 Secrets That Women Will Never Reveal To You

Get Laid Now: Can You Quickly Find Sex?

Scott Patterson asked:


There are so many online web sites devoted to the topic of helping you to get laid now. But is there any merit to those web sites? Or are there other ways to approach actually getting laid within the very near future? There sure are – and knowing how to work a situation and find an interested partner is only a few steps away.

First, get off the internet. Most of the web sites that offer the opportunity for you to get laid tonight are all smoke and no fire. You’ll end up spending so much time talking to people who are only toying with you or who would need way too much encouragement to actually come out and meet up with you.

Plus, we all know that most people lie on their online profiles. If you did succeed in making plans to hook up with someone from the internet, you might be totally turned off by who they really are and look like when you actually meet them. Pass on that experience!

Second, get out of your house. You need to go to where the women are if you want any chance of finding sex quickly. While you’re on your way out to socialize, give yourself a pep talk.

No matter what you look like, how much money you have or what your track record is like, you can find someone to hook up with on short notice. Head for a social gathering place that you know will be filled with hot prospects ‘ not a quiet bar where shy women will avoid looking your way.

Third, once you’re at a bar or a club that’s filled with women, make like a politician and start working the room. You should be able to tell from the first few moments with a woman whether she’s into you or not. If she’s clearly blowing you off, move on. You’ll know when you get to a lady who is also interested in having a good time.

Once you do, it’s time to start working her. A great way to get her loosened up and to make plans for later is to start by buying her a drink. You don’t want to get her sloppy drunk, but a little bit of relaxation from a bottle will get this party started. Once she’s comfortable with you and giving off the get laid now vibe, it’s time to move in and close the deal.

Closing the deal means making her an offer she can’t refuse. Whether you invite her directly back to your place or just make plans to ‘go somewhere quiet’ to get out of the mayhem of the bar, you’re on your way to a fun filled evening. Keep the momentum going through constant flirting, physical contact and innuendos. Once you arrive at your digs or hers, it’ll be easy to move in on her and get laid now!



How To Create Instant Attraction With Any Woman

Clyde Lee Dennis asked:


I can describe the latest release from Rock sensation Gregg Allman for you with just one word… Outstanding!

It’s a rare day indeed that I get a CD from an artist that I can truthfully say does not have a bad track in the bunch. I’m more than happy to announce that’s exactly what I must say about this one. There simply isn’t a bad one in the bunch. No fillers here at all, with each song standing tall on it’s own.

These days it’s a very rare CD on which every single song is good or better than the one before it. This CD is certainly one of those rare CDs.

Overall Laid Back is outstanding from beginning to end. One of those CDs that after a few listens the songs are just etched into your memory. A must have for the Rock fan. Really spectacular from beginning to end.

While this entire CD is outstanding the truly standout tunes are track 2 – Queen Of Hearts, track 4 – Don’t Mess Up A Good Thing, and track 8 – Will The Circle Be Unbroken.

My Bonus Pick, and the one that got Sore [...as in "Stuck On REpeat"] is track 1 – Midnight Rider. Great track!

Laid Back Release Notes:

Gregg Allman originally released Laid Back on May 1, 2001 on the Polydor label.

CD Track List Follows:

1. Midnight Rider 2. Queen Of Hearts 3. Please Call Home 4. Don’t Mess Up A Good Thing 5. These Days 6. Multi-Colored Lady 7. All My Friends 8. Will The Circle Be Unbroken

Personnel: Gregg Allman (vocals, acoustic guitar, organ); Tommy Talton (acoustic, electric & slide guitars, dobro, tambourine); Scott Boyer (acoustic, electric & slide guitars, piano); Buzzy Feiten, Jimmy Nalls (electric guitar); David Newman (saxophone); Chuck Leavell (piano); Paul Hornsby (organ, clavinet); Charlie Hayward, Johnny Sandlin, David Brown (bass); Bill Stewart (drums); Butch Trucks (casaba); Jaimoe (congas); Maeretha Stewart, Helene Miles, Hilda Harris, Albert Robinson, Carl Hall, June McGruder, Lydia November, Eileen Gilbert, Emily Houston (background vocals). Engineers: Johnny Sandlin, Ovie Sparks, Buddy Thornton. Recorded at Capricorn Sound Studios, Macon, Georgia.



First Practical, Step-by-Step Blueprint for Talking and Flirting with Women No Matter If You?re Short, Old, Ugly, Flat-Broke, or Get Less Action Than a 40-Year Old Virgin!

Dating to get laid

Francis Githinji asked:


The human heart is full of complex happenings that make not to be simple and clear, as depicted by our character to look the opposite of what we have in mind. Let face it, we might be living a lie. Imagine dating for the sole purpose of getting laid, to have man have sexual intercourse with you, or have a woman to share a few hours with as you discover what she hides behind that thin dinner dress, that is so tight as to make her show all her contours; the sexy high bosom, the round fundaments that have shapely thighs teasing your manhood, and that smile that is putty and perfects the lips, which make you want to rush at her and surprise her with one of the French kisses you have ever had.

Many people feel this is way when they want to date yet they are not after long lasting relationships that the dating could occasion. It is in the character of a human to find that woman or man who has the composition that makes you want to have sexual favors with. We cannot avoid it. Sex and humans are like human beings and oxygen, separate them and there will be no life. When we lack it the society is in a bigger problem than the atomic bomb. The character of a human does not let him have peace until he has been able to get that woman he has been dating, in his bed. Getting laid is good, wholesome and refreshing.

There is nothing like it. Imagine what happens to a relationship between a man and woman and what makes things go awry. Money and material things can make you fight today, and forgive each other tomorrow, daily disagreements cannot occur, but communication quells that type of fire. Nevertheless start denying your partner the chance to have sex with you for two consecutive times, tomorrow he will get late at work, and the next, and soon, it will be a normal routine; he is always late to get home because of career issues, at least that’s what he tells you. In reality, he has gone to that woman who gives into his sexual advances without demur, rising to the occasion just like him.

He might not touch you for a very long time, until you also realize what is happening. Single men and women are dating more and more together, all in the sole reason of having a quick one after the event. They can’t avoid it. The body of a human has it that after puberty, the gonads mature and prepare themselves for sexual action. The modern world has people putting careers before their intimacy, and the resultant effect is these men and women are engaging in dating relationships only to have a fling after, because they cannot avoid it, their bodies cannot stay without sex.

Otherwise, the number of rape cases will increase, as the private parts of men and women were made to have a lustful union with each other. It’s not bad to engage in dating for a lay, what is important is that you have both determined it and you are ok to try it.



How a Former Stuttering, Shy Nerd Cracked the Code to Flirting with Women and Creating Sexual Attraction…

Rachelle Ann asked:


As a business owner, your goal is not only to gain more and more clients. You have to find ways so that you can retain all those while adding up on the list. If you feel like you are failing on some parts, maybe rush printing services can help you to catch up.

Thanks to the advent of rush printing services, the competition becomes more exciting for advertisers like you. If the other company has done well with a type of ad that you didn’t think about before, there is a way for you to still be noticed by consumers.

Get into the rush and come up with the same type of ad. You can follow their lead but it doesn’t really need to be obvious. If they have done exceptionally well with postcards, then you can have your own postcards done by the right printing company. Come up with better ideas that will fit right with your image and style.

Rapport Building

You have to get to the core of your costumers to be able to serve them better. You need to establish a connection. And you must learn how to develop a good business relationship with them. You can do this better in person. But ads will also help. Here are some ways to do so.

1. Know what they want.

You can only take the final decision about the designs of your ads when you have great knowledge of what your market wants.

2. Talk to them with words they can understand.

This is why you are dividing your target market according to demographics. You cannot talk hip-hop with the elders. You cannot talk classical with kids. You must create ad copies like you are talking to a friend. Always make sure that your friend understands what you are saying.

3. Know where they are.

Having knowledge of what places your target market usually frequents will help you decide about where to place your ads. Ad placement is very crucial to the effectiveness of your materials.

4. Address their needs.

To give your clients the type of service that they are looking for, you must first know what are they looking for in the first place. You must tweak your ads in ways that it will appear like you want to help them solve their problems.

This way, they will be able to see you as a friend they can depend on. And in the long run, they will think of you when they have the same needs.

5. Personalize your ads.

When using the print medium, you must not alienate your readers. You must let them know that you are talking to them. Use the right words. And make your ad copies more personal.

Those are simple rules that when applied on your ads, they would be powerful tools that can lead you to success. Now you don’t have to worry about being left behind by the stiff competition.

Avail rush printing services whenever you need to. But make sure that every material will carry out the quality that will appeal to your market. Help them choose you over your competitors. Let the relationship grow and find ways to sustain it for a very long time.



How a Former Stuttering, Shy Nerd Cracked the Code to Flirting with Women and Creating Sexual Attraction…

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