Archive for August, 2009

BNM asked:

please list your top ten flirting tips and tricks!

3 Secrets That Women Will Never Reveal To You

Anthony Brown Sr asked:


Let’s face it. Getting laid off really sucks! Why do bad things happen at the worst possible times in our lives? I know when I got laid off I started to think: My Lord how am I going to pay my bills, get gas money to look for another job, and tell my wife! Things started to look very grim at this point in my life. Financial strains are the major cause of failures in marriages and relationships today. Why is that? I think it is because we worry too much about money. I am looking back after my lay off and saying this. Going through the storm, I thought much differently.

I have made it my life’s passion since that time, to build an income and save some of it so that if this ever happens again, I will be prepared. One of the ways I do this is internet marketing. I don’t do it full time. I don’t worry about it, but the income is there. Once you learn how to market, the income will start to trickle in. The stream of income gets to flowing faster and faster. The amounts of payments get bigger and bigger. There are a lot of people out there that say that internet marketing doesn’t work. I am here to tell you that I know differently. I have made income from it. I continue to get income month after month. If it didn’t work this wouldn’t be so.

The problem most people face is training. Training is a major factor in your success doing internet marketing, making hamburgers, cleaning cars, building roads, delivering pizzas, or any other occupation that you can name. You are not a productive employee until you learn how to do the job and strive to improve yourself. Training is crucial.

In internet marketing there are a lot of people who promise you that they can teach you the latest, greatest method of getting the job done. These people most of the time have no proof because they have not even used the methods they are trying to sell you on. How many of you have had training on your first day on the new job. There is always someone who you learn better from because their teaching style agrees with your learning style. When you find this person, you excel and get better and better. This person shows you how to do the job simply and easily.

Friends, I am here to tell you that you have found that person in internet marketing. I am here to tell you about a training program for internet marketing being released by two people who actually use the methods they teach. They teach in a style that is readily learned by most everyone. They teach you real world applications. Their names are Kyle and Carson at Wealthy Affiliate. Their program is called Who Loves Money. It is in book format. What they have done is truly amazing. They have taken all of the strategies and techniques that they use for Wealthy Affiliate and other ventures and compiled them in to a training manual to help those who are struggling in their finances. Could this be you friend? This course will teach you how to create income from the internet with no money out of your own pocket. If I were you I would check it out. Take it for a test drive. See the proof. You will be glad you did. You may not even need to polish your resume ever again. We look forward to hearing from you. God Bless!



How a Former Stuttering, Shy Nerd Cracked the Code to Flirting with Women and Creating Sexual Attraction…

Joshua Uebergang asked:

The strongest belief I need to firstly destroy is that women want a physically attractive man. A guy’s attractiveness towards women is far more about personality than physical looks. If you do not believe me, go out to where hot women are and you will see average and sometimes ugly looking men, having women begging for their attention. I have heard countless stories of guys aged over 40, bald, short, and even over 350 pounds, who are dating women rated 10 on a scale of 1 to 10.

Additionally, I have heard good looking guys have hopeless results in attracting women. Physical looks can get a lady’s initial interest, but it is not what builds attraction. You may be wondering why tall, good-looking, rich guys are associated with hot women. The fact is these guys have other characteristics that attract women. They emit confidence, are challenging, and show other alpha male qualities which you will learn more about later on.

How you communicate to a lady, the signals you emit such as confidence and assertiveness, and not your physical looks determines how attracted a lady is to you.

Of course, there are women who will only accept a man based on his looks. Do not worry about these few women. They have an extremely shallow personality created from low self-esteem and other self-related problems. You do not want to be with someone who is so superficial.

Physical looks are important but not as important as society norms perceive them to be. There is a level of physical attraction that can hold you back like poor hygiene, awful attire, and annoying habits. It is likely these will only hold you back when one of these characteristics is below the average man. As an example, repulsive breath is enough to turn off any women.

You still want to be as physically attractive as possible. Every guy should dress in a way that compliments their figure and is good for the situation.

Ask your friends as to what they think you could change to improve your physical attractiveness to women. Even better, ask a female friend what they think you could change. Most women will be more then happy to fix you up. There is nothing like getting a women’s perspective on how you can better your physical looks. Let them know you are very open to hearing anything and welcoming of criticism so they do not hold back advice in fear of hurting you.

Mouth hygiene is an important physical issue you need to have working for you and not against you. Brush your teeth in the morning and night. Also brush the roof of your mouth and tongue to ensure your breathe does not smell like a garbage dump. Floss at least once a week to remove food stuck in between your teeth. Furthermore, you can rinse your mouth regularly with water, gargle salt water, and use a mouth rinse. Do as much as you can to prevent the build-up of bacteria which creates smelly breathe.

Another thing you must do to work with what physical looks you have, is building your muscle definition and doing cardiovascular workouts 2-3 times a week. You do not need to look like Mr. Olympia to benefit from working out. Being more muscularly defined emits confidence, dominance, and improves your well-being and self-esteem. The cardiovascular workouts will develop your endurance throughout the day, better your happiness, improve self-perceptions, and allow you to maintain an energetic personality. Working out will give you amazing psychological benefits that go well beyond characteristics favored by women. You can overcome personal insecurities and live a happier life by working out regularly.

Now that you understand the greatest illusion of women feeling attracted is excellent physical looks and that you have got the most important physical attributes under control and working for you in building attraction towards women, it is time to look at more characteristics you can develop that women want.



First Practical, Step-by-Step Blueprint for Talking and Flirting with Women No Matter If You?re Short, Old, Ugly, Flat-Broke, or Get Less Action Than a 40-Year Old Virgin!

Mark Taylor asked:


Everybody is capable and competent when it comes to attracting and seducing — it is not as difficult or even that complex to do the attraction or flirting game as many of us make it out to be. Believe me. As human beings, we naturally send out signals to be desired and wanted. The psychology of physical attraction has been alive since the dawn of man and it can be shown in several ways: eye contact, touching, whispering, leaning, licking your lips, crossing and uncrossing your legs, meeting your gaze — sometimes, we do this unconsciously, making it obviously known that it strengthens the idea that one of the greatest goal of every person is to be loved, desired and cared for.

Take note that being physically attractive or being born with good looks is only a bonus. You don’t have to look like Brad Pitt or a model to be the most attractive, sexy, attention-getting guy there is. Remember, physical attraction is not all about the physical at all. Your inner aura gives off a certain radiance and glow to your bodily appearance, thus, many have the looks but haven’t taken the time to enhance their other assets. These things are interconnected and cannot function without the other. So go ahead. Read. Paint. Indulge in to your passions. Pamper yourself. Enhance your whole being. Love yourself first before deciding to love others. A person who knows himself and is accomplished have it easier to become a woman magnet.

Though the psychology of physical attraction applies to outside appearance and motives, for example, the eye flirtation, wearing of jewelry, husky voice, smile — inner confidence and sometimes even natural gestures can attract and fascinate the opposite sex. Investing to yourself as a whole is the entire point of being physically attractive.

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3 Secrets That Women Will Never Reveal To You

What are some good flirting tips?

r a w r. asked:


I’m in junior high and I want some flirting tips that are cute and fun. Please help! Preferrably guys, but girls can answer too!

How a Former Stuttering, Shy Nerd Cracked the Code to Flirting with Women and Creating Sexual Attraction…

Some of the Best Flirting Tips

Francis Githinji asked:


Nobody wants to have lame flirting moves and, for this reason, you need to stay ahead with the right information that will ensure you get that man or woman of your dreams. Sometimes, we are dominated by fear and, we are not able to express ourselves very well in regard to flirting. Therefore, prior preparation of flirting will ensure that you perfect your act and go all out to hit the jackpot. You need to have only the best flirting tips available to set you on the road to conquer that mountain and get want you want; a good relationship. The Internet will provide you with a lot of tips but, you must ensure that you apply only the best. In my search, I was able to identify only the best tips and, you need to buckle up. The first of the best flirting tips is that flirting is an attitude. This could not be truer. One of the most attractive traits is flirting is self confidence and a positive attitude.

The other thing is to start a conversation. When you are confident enough in what you want, you will not find it very hard to spark a conversation. Start by saying hello then, talk about the surrounding and, you will have sparked a conversation. Do not appear to be too tense. Loosen up and have fun. Keeping it light can only ensure that a good mood is established. The best flirting tips continue as follows. In the conversation, take the position of a host. This will always manage to make him or her feel at ease. If you are attracted to a person, best flirting tips will advice you to make the first move. This will give you all the power to control the flirt. You will be in a position to read whether they are flirting back. The other thing that is sure to make your relationship prosper is listening. Your flirting partner will appreciate someone who can just listen to them. Many people are very quick to speak and do not listen. When you make use of your two ears, you will find your relationship blossoming.

Other best flirting tips include eye contact. Sometimes, people are not able to execute eye contact in the right manner. The contact should not be a stare. This is because you might scare the other person or intimidate them. Make sure that your contact lasts a few seconds then, look away. Compliments will also go a long way in ensuring that a flirt is good. Do not flood them with unrealistic and untrue compliments. Therefore, whatever you do, make sure that you are sincere and real. The other tip is to smile. You know what they say about a smile; it is very contagious. A smile will always speak for the thoughts you may have. There is nothing more interesting than this. You need to make your experience a natural and enjoyable one. There is nothing more interesting than connecting with a person you like.



3 Secrets That Women Will Never Reveal To You

Surefire Ways to Build Rapport With Customers

Carolyn McFann asked:


No matter how you sell, whether it’s on the phone or in person, sales is all about persuading your customers to care about your product enough to want to buy it. By being sensitive to the buyers’ attitudes and preferences, the salesperson builds trust. Hidden within casual conversation, there are buying clues. As the salesperson, your job is to fill consumers’ needs, fitting your product into their lives, and convincing them that this is the best product for them.

First, try to get a feel for your customer’s interests and needs. Your job is to fulfill these needs with your products. For example, you are selling magazines and you find out your customer loves basketweaving and reptiles. Offer him whatever titles in your catalog that pertain to these subjects, such as “Basketweaving Today” or “Lizard Lovers Monthly”. Try to relate with the customer if they still provide resistance to the sale, even if the subjects they like bore you to tears. Find a common ground, so they will feel somewhat of a bond with you for that moment in time.

Be sensitive to the customer’s buying style. If the customer shows signs of wanting you to speed up the presentation, then by all means, speed it up. Stick to your presentation, and be friendly but not overly friendly. Think of how you would like to be approached by a salesperson when you are buying something. I remember going into a commissioned sales-driven, high-end clothing store with my mother as a young woman. My mom made the mistake of telling the salespeople she was buying me a bunch of clothes, so they bombarded me with syrupy-sweet suggestions on what they thought would look good to me. I was really annoyed with them, and walked out. My mother talked me back in, and the salespeople backed off with their overly pushy suggestions. By being free to choose without people hawking over me, I found clothing I liked, and they got their sale. I wanted to have my own say in what I was choosing, not be told what I “should” buy. Be sensitive to the customer and what they are saying to you nonverbally. Do they want your help or do they want to make the decision independently? Help them by providing facts and if warranted, support, but don’t overdo it or you can kill the sale.

In sales, I have consistently managed to have high conversions and sales throughout my career. Why? Because I do not get overly dramatic, sound fake, and I care about my customers. I take the time to listen to what they have to say, and how they say it. If you listen to your customers and show interest in them, then they will be more apt to listen to what you have to say, and relate to you. My customers are important to me. If they have questions, I listen and find the answers if I don’t know them.

If you know veteran salespeople who are high-achievers, learn from them, and watch how they treat people. They are generally upbeat, polite, firm and not over the top with their emotions. I prefer even keel emotions, no matter how the customer acts. Being overly emotional is discouraged, as it can spark the customer to become more emotional as well. Calm, cool and professional, with an air of down-to-earth friendliness does the trick for me. Find what style is best for you, and improve on it, the more presentations you do. Sales style and presentation is ever-evolving, so take your time to develop it. Each customer has his or her own ways of relating to you, so your job is to subtly adapt your presentation to their different personalities. That is the fun of sales, no sale is exactly the same.

Keep a positive attitude, even if you don’t make the sale. It is always possible that this customer may need time to think your presentation over and come back later to purchase. Or, they may be so impressed with your product or presentation (hopefully, both), and tell friends to come back and buy from you. Treat everyone with respect and be professional, to increase the likelihood of repeat sales and referrals. They are the life blood of business.

As a salesperson, it is your job to represent your company with the utmost respect and class. Be personable, helpful and go beyond your customer’s expectations. Make sure to think how you would want to be treated, and act accordingly. With sensitivity and product knowledge under your belt, you will watch your sales grow. Once you’ve established your style, improve on it whenever possible. Never stop learning, and your sales abilities will improve, as will your paychecks. Trust me, the extra effort is worth it. I wish you luck.



How a Former Stuttering, Shy Nerd Cracked the Code to Flirting with Women and Creating Sexual Attraction…

Groshan Fabiola asked:


The last episode of Grey’s Anatomy was all about sex, literally. We saw Izzie complaining about her chemistry with George, or the lack thereof. The same can’t be said about Derek and Meredith, though, as the two were brimming with sexual tension. However, Derek thought that their relationship lacked more of the love. Moreover, Mark teased Derek of being the Chief’s new girlfriend when Derek frequently picked up the Chief’s dry cleaning for him, and subsequently had dinner and a movie with him.

Meredith experienced some sister trouble when she forbid Lexie to sleep with Alex at Meredith’s place. Meredith even told her off, saying that Lexie should start living her own life and get her own friends. Not wanting to get in between them, Alex kept his distance.

Callie, on the other hand, went through a rough time dealing with her administrative responsibilities, and thus asked help from Bailey, who gladly covered for her while she scrubbed in for back-to-back duties.

Featured patients tonight were the marbles-swallowing kid whom George attended, a man who couldn’t move his bowels, who was attended by Alex, and an annoying woman demanding for a facelift, attended by Izzie. The bowel guy and facelift woman annoyed Izzie and Alex so much that they followed Bailey’s advice of placing them in the same room, so that they could annoy each other. However, their plan failed as the two became more than just friends in a matter of hours. The two patients hit it off so well that when Alex and Izzie walked in, they were having sex. This made Izzie realize how much she and George lacked chemistry, and made her resentful about it.

For the night, Cristina attended to a woman who fell down the stairs while carrying her adopted baby. Lexie was in charge of the baby, while Erica took over the mother, who later on died, leaving her husband to take care of the baby he named Keisha.

The end of the episode, Izzie and George finally develop some chemistry, causing them to have the best sex ever.

For more resources about Grey’s Anatomy or for the full story of Grey’s Anatomy: Episode 4.7 “Physical Attraction… Chemical Reaction” Recap please review http://www.buddytv.com



3 Secrets That Women Will Never Reveal To You

Cyber seduction: his secret life(Jeremy Sumpter)

prettyvacant90 asked:


vid ’bout “cyber seduction:his secret life”, a tv movie with jeremy sumpter (yeah, the peter pan). The song is “creep” by radiohead. i hope you like it. *****************

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Michael Lee asked:


Ever the wallflower when it comes to parties and social gatherings? Don’t you just wish you could actually make any guy fall head over heels for you? Fortunately, it’s not too late to change yourself as long as you learn a few flirting tips for shy girls.

These flirting tips for shy girls will help you become a more empowered woman. All you need is a little push in the right direction and you’ll no longer have to spend the night sulking miserably in one corner.



Flirting Tips for Shy Girls  # 1: Start Slow
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It’s best to begin with baby steps. Don’t force yourself to act like a diva on your next night out. You might end up embarrassing yourself.

Start with perfecting your smile first. If you’re assigned to a table, try smiling at those sitting next to you. Maintain eye contact and hold your smile a little longer for the guy you’re interested in.

Don’t panic if they don’t reciprocate the same level of interest you’re giving. You’d be surprised to know that most of them are just as shy as you are.



Flirting Tips for Shy Girls # 2: Make Yourself Approachable.


Smiling also makes you look more approachable to guys in general. If you find it difficult to make the first move, your dazzling smile will handle that situation for you.

Don’t just stand in a corner either. If there is a buffet table, help yourself to a few portions. The buffet table is always a great place to start conversations.

When a guy falls in line behind you, why not ask him about the catering service, such as “Have you tried the punch yet? I heard it’s really delicious!”  Guys are really into girls who can not only initiate a conversation but hold one up as well.



Flirting Tips for Shy Girls # 3: Communicate With Gestures.


Subtle signals like flipping your hair can drive a man wild. Just don’t overdo it though. Flip your hair as elegantly as you can.

Also, you can try touching his hand or arms briefly as if to express a point. Being in close proximity with another man also conveys that you’re into him. Just don’t invade his personal space too much.

These flirting tips for shy girls are designed for beginners. There’s nothing wrong with that because these tips actually form the foundation of your growing confidence. Once you have mastered these moves and conversation starters, you’ll be more comfortable dabbing into the more advanced flirting moves.



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