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How To Create Instant Attraction With Any Woman

Girls what are some flirting tips?

Jesus asked:


Ok so I’ve noticed that many people on this site like to be sarcastic for no reason so I am asking that if you want to answer this question with a BS answer please don’t answer this one.

What are some flirting tips that I could use with girls in high school?

Thanks

How To Create Instant Attraction With Any Woman

Seduction 19th – Alison Hinds part 4

dynastyd asked:


My Best Clip by far, as u will agree wid me 8 mins long…. Bless, Digga D.

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Power of Physical Attractiveness

Didymus Leong asked:


Physical attractiveness is a measure of an individual’s power to attract, arouse interest, or instill pleasure. The term may also apply to a group, race, or type of people. Traits may range from being deemed as extremely repulsive to those that are extremely attractive. Common scientific quantifiers used to measure “physical attractiveness” are averageness, symmetry, and youthfulness (in women), as well as others, such as complexion, skin tone, vigor, etc. Physical attractiveness has a close relationship to beauty.

Physical attractiveness can have a significant effect on how people are judged, in terms of employment or social opportunities, friendship, sexual behavior, and marriage. In many cases humans attribute positive characteristics, such as intelligence and honesty, to attractive people without consciously realizing it.

Looking good is a universal human preoccupation. We acknowledge that our perception of beauty in people is culturally derived when we say that ‘beauty is in the eye of the beholder.’ Ornamentation seems to matter in the animal kingdom where it is usually the male who is colorful; a biological fact especially evident in birds. Decoration and body shape matters in many human societies; tattooing, body piercing, and dental mutilation has both a long history and a world wide distribution. Every culture–at every time in history–is/has been preoccupied with good looks.

What is symmetry?

1. It is beauty of form arising from balance of proportions.

2. To be symmetrical means being correspondence in size, shape and relative positions of the body parts.

Symmetry especially facial symmetry is one of a number of traits, including averageness and youthfulness, associated with health, physical attractiveness and beauty of a person or animal.

Facial asymmetries and minor physical anomalies begin to appear early in embryonic development, mainly the first trimester of pregnancy, and can be a sign of instability during this growth.

Facial symmetry is neither the only trait nor is it necessarily the most important trait of what a culture considers attractive

Other areas of Symmetry

• The similarity of one or more facial features, particularly the eyes, eyebrows, nose and mouth

• The similarity in facial proportions, usually involving the features and the distance between them

• An attraction to another person based on them having similar features to someone with whom they formed a strong interpersonal bond with at an early age, usually a mother or father.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

Thomas Leong



3 Secrets That Women Will Never Reveal To You

Alex asked:


You can date women that are more physically attractive than you! If you just look around you’ll see many beautiful women with average guys.

Here are 10 extremely powerful tips for attracting women.

1. The number one rule – beautiful women are NOT attracted to men who act like wussies. Follow just this one rule and you will date women like crazy.

2. The number two rule – forget the saying “be yourself and things will work out”. This rule only works if you naturally attract women.

3. All women will respond to a confident, funny guy, no matter in which part of the world they live in.

4. Most women respond very well to the cocky & funny attitude. However, intelligent, attractive, self-confident women respond best.

5. Be careful with the cocky and funny approach (being challenging and humorous at the verbal level). Do not get too cocky; being funny is a crucial component of the formula. If you end up as arrogant and hurting a woman’s feelings, you need to say: “Relax… what, you don’t have a sense of humor?” Then add more humor. Just don’t start apologizing.

6. The best approach when you’re first meeting a woman is to just get the number/email and go. Later, when you talk on the phone or email, and meet up, you can be more cocky and funny.

7. Avoid being “too sweet, too soon.” For example, do not bring a dozen roses with you to the first meeting. If you’re excessively attentive early on with a woman, she’ll perceive you as needy. This is not attractive. You can add a little sweetness after a while. For example, after seeing a woman for a few weeks, buy her a flower, and tell her you were thinking of her.

8. Do not waste time on the phone with small talk. Just tell her: “Let’s get together Friday (or any other day) for a cup of coffee and some interesting conversation.”

9. A very effective technique is to treat women like your “Bratty Little Sister”. This method works especially well with women who are used to having men run after them and compliment them all the time on their beauty.

10. And do not forget. You really do not have anything to lose when approaching women. Rejection will not put you at a loss at all. This attitude will get you numbers, emails, and tons of dates.

Apply these tips and I guarantee that they will increase your success with beautiful women. Guaranteed.

There is part 2 of this article that talks about 10 more tips that are so effective that you will become a master of attracting women in no time. Click here for part 2 – how to attract women.



How a Former Stuttering, Shy Nerd Cracked the Code to Flirting with Women and Creating Sexual Attraction…

Jane Deuber asked:


With more and more people corresponding through e-mail, now is the time to differentiate your business by personalizing your contact with a simple and inexpensive postcard. There are so many reasons why you should send postcards regularly. They are affordable (whether homemade or purchased), inexpensive to send, fast to write and fun to receive!

Sending out the occasional postcard can you set apart from everyone else in the industry. Not only does it give you a chance to put your product in front of existing customers, it is also a great tool to build a deeper relationship with them. A thank you card for example is a lot more personal than an email with the same message. Give it a try and see if your sales don’t start going up.

Following are just a few reasons to add a personal touch by sending postcards to your customers:

1. To say thank you for their business.

2. To inform them of an upcoming sale or a special offer.

3. To invite them to a meeting, an open house, or to visit your website.

4. To set yourself apart from the crowd. When others are sending email, sending a postcard leaves a lasting impression.

5. To remind them you are here for the duration and want them as a customer for life.

6. To let them know about new and exciting products your company has just launched.

7. To let them know you reward generously for leads and referrals.

8. To locate a prior customer whose email address is no longer valid.

9. To demonstrate that you care about them as people as well as customers.

10. To keep your clients excited about doing business with YOU! Set a goal to send ten post cards a week by carrying a stack of blank, stamped postcards with you at all times.

Turn those moments waiting for an appointment or watching the kids at the park into productive, relationship-building time (by writing a few postcards each and every week) and watch your customer loyalty grow!



How a Former Stuttering, Shy Nerd Cracked the Code to Flirting with Women and Creating Sexual Attraction…

J. Rock asked:


Flirting is a very common way to try and lure your new “girl” or “guy” into your life to have a relationship with them. Knowing the proper ways to flirt is a must, especially if you’re a guy flirting with a girl. Below in this article we will be discussing flirting tips for men that will greatly increase your chances of landing the next girl of your dreams.

1. Tease the Woman

Women love to be teased, to a certain degree though. Don’t overdue it, but tease her when the opportunity is right. Making jokes and getting her to laugh should be a top priority in a relationship. Make sure you do it in a playful way so she knows you are playing around!

2. Look at Her and Smile

A very common way to flirt is a simple smile. Most people don’t realize how far a smile can take you in a relationship. Smiling at a woman shows that you like her and care about her. It also shows that you feel comfortable around her and look forward to being in a relationship with her. Smiling can mean so many things and it is one of the most common and simplest, yet effective ways to flirt with women.

3. Be Funny

A key to flirting with women kind of goes back to point number 1. You need to be funny and make the woman laugh. If this means telling a joke, tickling her, etc… you need to make her laugh! Bring a smile to her face. The funnier you are the more the woman will like you. Find the woman’s tickle spot and use it to your advantage. Play fight and wrestle, tickle her as much as you can.

Again, these are the best 3 flirting tips for men. By following these 3 tips you will land your next dream girl in no time at all. It is all about making the woman feel comfortable around you, laugh around you, and being surprised. You don’t want to be predictable in relationships otherwise they will get old and stale quick. Don’t always try the dinner and the movie. Sometimes it’s good to live on the edge. Once you use these flirting tips to land your next woman, try taking her on an adventurous date. For example, take her on a date on top of a mountain and have a picnic overlooking the city. I guarantee she will remember a date like this forever and she will be hooked to you for a long long time. It is all about making the woman happy, if she’s smiling, you know she is happy. In whatever you do, do not give up! Women come dime a dozen. If you get shut down using any of these techniques, pick yourself up and move on to the next! I wish you the best of luck in landing your next dream girl using these flirting tips! They work like a charm so try them for yourself!



How To Create Instant Attraction With Any Woman

He Is Legend – The Seduction (Live)

Robert Greenshields asked:


Rapport is one of the core concepts of Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP) and it can help you get better results from your communication and marketing.

Improving your rapport building skills can help you:

- Make more sales.

- Get a better job.

- Win better deals in negotiations.

- Speak effectively and persuasively in public.

You can say that you have rapport with someone when there is a comfortable feeling of confidence and trust between you.

Think about a time when you were in a conversation with someone and the two of you were naturally in sync.

You probably felt as though you were speaking with your thoughts as much as with your words.

You can easily choose to build that level of rapport with another person or a group of people.

Where there is strong rapport, people understand each other more easily and there is potential for effective communication.

You’ve already done this many times throughout your life but you may not have recognized what you were doing.

Six Ways to Build Rapport

We generally like people who are like ourselves in some way. So you build rapport by making the other person feel that you have something in common.

The key to this is matching something about them or their behavior. Here are six things you can match in another person to build rapport:

Words: You can build rapport by matching the way the other person talks. Take note of the words they use which indicate their sensory preferences (such as visual, auditory or kinesthetic) and use similar words and phrases in your own communication. You should also try to use any key words or phrases that they use a lot, such as “Alright”, “Actually”, “You know what I mean”.

Physiology: Copying the posture, facial expressions, hand gestures or movements of someone you are talking to will cause their body to say unconsciously to their mind that this person is like me! You don’t have to match them exactly – for example if they are tapping their fingers, you can move your feet with a similar rhythm.

Voice: If the person talks slowly and deliberately, for example, he will feel comfortable if you are the same way.

Breathing: If two people in conversation are breathing very differently, e.g. in depth or speed of breathing, both of them would feel uncomfortable. So you may need to match their rhythm of breathing.

How they deal with information: Some people are detail-oriented while others prefer their information brief. If you get this wrong, the detail-oriented person will be yearning for more facts or the big-picture person will soon be yawning!

Common experiences: If you travel somewhere and meet a stranger who turns out to be from your hometown, you will quickly have a lively conversation. It’s rarely so clear-cut but the secret is to find some commonality. It’s much easier to build rapport when people can find some shared interests and experiences or a common background.

To build effective rapport you must be an exceptional observer so that you notice little things about people.

The other person is not likely to notice you using these techniques provided you don’t go too far.

You can develop your ability to observe other people to such an extent that you will begin to see and even predict their reactions to what you say.

Once you have established rapport, you can start changing the other person’s viewpoint to more closely match your own. This is called leading. Do this slowly, and you will elicit a positive response. You will notice them starting to adopt your mannerisms and enthusiasm. However, do it too quickly and you will blow your rapport.

Once you have mastered the skills of rapport building, you will find that you can lead virtually anyone and any group, large or small, in the direction you wish.

As with most things, rapport-building techniques become more effective the more you use them so it’s important that you practice whenever possible. You can practice building rapport with strangers at the grocery store or even in line at the coffee shop.

It can be a lot of fun and also very profitable!



First Practical, Step-by-Step Blueprint for Talking and Flirting with Women No Matter If You?re Short, Old, Ugly, Flat-Broke, or Get Less Action Than a 40-Year Old Virgin!

Sarah Nichols asked:


Who says you have to be outgoing…almost having ADHD just to flirt successfully?!

Truth be told, even the most reclusive of girls can do really well when it comes flirting and letting the other guy know their sexy intentions.

Keep this in mind – flirting isn’t just about getting physical.

The physical part is important, don’t get me wrong, BUT there are other aspects (emotional, psychological, verbal, etc.) that when nailed down the right way packs more punch than grinding down at the dance floor in front of your dream guy.

Not-so-out-going ladies – get ready for these flirting tips for shy girls, you’re about to rock your man’s world!

Flirting Tips For Shy Girls 1

Be confident and comfortable about yourself.

When flirting, you need to convey this confident image of yours – that you’re NOT worried even a little bit about what others would think or say about you.

That isn’t to say that you dressing sloppily is ok. It isn’t. BUT keep this in mind, whatever dress you wear and whichever situation you’re in, be confident.

Flirting Tips For Shy Girls 2

Hold eye contact especially when you’re talking with guy you’re after.

Eye contact says a lot about you. Being able to hold eye contact (about 90% of the time) show that you’re calm and confident. And as we all know, both men and women love talking to someone who oozes with confidence.

Not to mention this conveys interest with the guy you’re talking to. In the flirting game, letting your guy know that you’re interested about him is a vital step.

Holding eye contact will get you there.

Flirting Tips For Shy Girls 3

Simple and seemingly insignificant gestures and remarks can take you a long way. Things like:

- Winking at him before you leave.

- Calling him funny (BUT not insulting) names

- Simple challenges to your man about something that interests him

…will create a playful aura between you. And get this – flirting is about being playful and being in a fun mood when together is very effective.

Flirting Tips For Shy Girls 4

Catch him by surprise by telling him that you like him in the most unexpected time and unexpected way.

This will catch him off guard and letting out a smile is what he can do at best. This should help you get in control of the situation and help you do the flirty things that will knock him off of his feet.

 

Have you ever known any women who seem to be “lucky in love” and where everything involving men seems to come easily and effortlessly to them? Let me tell you…It is not a magic. You don’t need to be gorgeous or young either. And you don’t have to be LUCKY too.

What you NEED to do is LEARN the secrets!

To discover the secrets to make any men feel ATTRACTION and want to be around you for the long-term, then you need to visit Catch Him And Keep Him

 

 



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