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Learn 5 Quick Ways To Build Rapport

Abbas Abedi asked:


Now let’s take a quick peak at the basics of developing rapport with others. In a nutshell, what it takes is to ask questions, have a positive, open attitude, encourage an open exchange of communications (both verbal and unspoken), listen to verbal and unspoken communications and share positive feedback. Here are a few details on each step.

Ask Questions: Building report is similar to interviewing someone for a job opening or it can be like a reporter seeking information for an article. Relax and get to know the other person with a goal of finding common ground or things of interest. You can begin by simply commenting on the other person’s choice of attire, if in person, or about their computer, if online, and following up with related questions. For example, in person, you could compliment the other person on their color choice and or maybe a pin, ring or other piece of jewelry and ask where it came from. In online communications, you could compliment the other person’s font, smile faces or whatever they use, mention that the communication style seems relaxed and ask if he or she writes a lot. Then basically follow up, steering clear of topics that could entice or cause arguing, while gradually leading the person to common ground you’d like to discuss.

Attitude: have a positive attitude and leave social labels at home (or in a drawer, if you’re at home). Many people can tell instantly if you have a negative attitude or if you feel superior. So treat other people as you would like to be treated. And give each person a chance.

Open Exchange: Do encourage others to share with you. Some people are shy, scared or inexperienced in communicating and welcome an opportunity to share. So both with body language and verbal communication invite an exchange. Face the other person with your arms open, eyes looking into theirs gently (not glaring or staring), and encourage a conversation with a warm smile.

Listen: Be an active listener. Don’t focus your thoughts on what YOU will say next. Listen to what the other person is saying and take your clues from there, while also noting the body language. For example, if the other person folds his arms and sounds upset, you may need to change the subject or let him have some space and distance; maybe even try approaching him later on and excusing yourself to go make a phone call (of head to the buffet table or somewhere to escape). On the other hand, if the other person is leaning towards you, following your every word and communicating with your as if you were old friends, BINGO. You’ve built rapport!

Share: People like compliments. So hand them out freely without over doing it. Leaving a nice part of yourself like a compliment is a good memory for the other person to recall numerous times. That’s good rapport. But do be sincere! False compliments aren’t easily disguised.



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Lara Lee asked:


When you start dating it is important to be attracted to the other person physically. Once you start talking you might not feel an emotional connection, this could be a problem in the future. Physical compatibility is important in couples. Both males and females have expectations from their partners. But there is a huge different between lust and love. Something which is purely based upon physical lust might die away way faster then the emotional understanding. A combination of both these elements is pure bliss. Many couples complain they are great in bed, but have serious issues talking to each other. Relationships like these fade away way faster.

Having an emotional understanding with your partner further enhances the physical element. The more comfortable the two are emotionally, the better they would understand the other physically. Women feel the need to be emotionally involved is their first priority, for men this varies. This scenario changes with age. When younger the depth of understanding your partner emotionally can vary, you make mistakes that are later regretted. As time progresses one learns, the need to find companions means a lot more than physical attraction. In younger college years couples, find it difficult to be with someone they are not physically attracted to since that is priority number one.

When asking couples, mostly women, if they prefer love over lust, for women the emotional being is way more important than the physical self. For a man it depends – he values love, but also emphasizes on the need to be compatible physically.

The media is setting perceptions for couples of what is right and wrong and what should be and what should not be. The importance of “looks” is a lot more important than it was years ago. This leads to a problem, often couples feel that their physical image is effecting their relationship. Many a times couple break up over these issues. Of course lust is short-lived and loved is not, but the combination or a balance of emotional compatibility with physical compatibility makes a relationship divine.



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Multiple Methods of List Building Strategies

CHRIS ALEIN asked:


You’ve heard it time and again, the Monee’s in the list. Just about anybody with a list will tell you that. If you have your own list, you know it.

There are multiple methods of list building, and if you are just getting started, until you have gained mastery over one or two methods, it is advisable to use multiple methods of list building strategies. There is some sort of special force in massive action–so do just that–use massive action. Take one of these strategies each day and take massive action with it. For example, in part 2, I cover articles. What would massive action be?

How about write 3 articles and post them to at least 100 article directories? That is massive action. Then the next day, take massive action regarding part 3, forums. Become a member or 100 forums and answer 100 forum questions everyday. And so on day after day. If you truly work at building a list and taking massive action, you can build a huge list and do it faster than you ever dreamed possible.

One thing to note here: if you are using multiple sources for your list building, track every source. For more help visit to: www.37-list-building-secrets.com. Not just for traffic, but for source-specific sign-ups and for sales. You might find that one list source gives you 3x the number of sign-ups, which is exciting. But if you aren’t tracking things deeply enough, you might not know that the bulk of your sales are coming from another list, one that is a little slower to grow. For more help visit to: www.build-huge-list.com. Just keep that in mind. You must get a squeeze page and an auto responder sequence up and running. A squeeze page is basically a web page that has a brief introduction, offering the reader an incentive to join your list. Perhaps you are offering an online course or a free e-book or a free tool for their business. After that brief introduction and call to action, you will have an opt-in form, provided by your auto responder service, to collect names and email addresses.

For your auto responder sequence, unless you already have product to pitch, you should just send the subscribers useful information every few days. If you do not have a main web site or product yet, that is OK, just send an email once or twice a week with useful information. You could even send them the articles that you write in part 2. But you must keep in touch with them, because if you add them to your list today and then don’t mail them for two months, they will not recognize you and they will see you as SPAM. Bad. So write once or twice a week, and you will build rapport with them.

Getting in front of qualified subscribers. You see, I say qualified, because any old name on your list is not what you are looking for. You want people on your list who are genuinely looking to improve themselves, their business, or their hobby. How do you do this? In each of the list building strategies that you employ, be sure and offer people great content, not just a free gift.

A free gift is good, but it should be an inducement, not the whole thing. They should want to subscribe because they believe you will provide a quality newsletter or mailing and they will receive good information.



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Any Flirting tips for a freshman(im a guy)?

alix mcq asked:


Hey whats going on yahoo, aight, so im a freshman in high school and just got a burst of confidence for some strange reason. So anyway i am absolutely terrible at flirting and was wondering if anybody had any tips. All thanks in advance.

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Cyber Seduction (1/11)

TiGhTaShiT182 asked:


Cyber Seduction [His secret life] Jeremy Sumpter^^ xD

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“The Last Seduction” trailer

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Linda Fiorentino and Bill Pullman

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Is He Attracted To Me? 5 Ways To Know

Sarah Nichols asked:


Is he attracted to me? That is the question that I always hear when a girl is asking to their friends about a guy that she starts getting interested to him. This can be a hard puzzle to solve when trying to find out what’s in a guys mind.

Sometimes, it can be frustrating not knowing the whether he may feel the same way as you do.So, if you are doubt and you always ask yourself whether he is attracted to you or not, then you need some clues for him to make you sure. But, how do you tell if a man is attracted to you? Here are my top five ways to find out that he is attracted to you.

1). Pay attention to any significant changes in his behavior toward you.

For example, he will call you all the time, pursues you by giving you lots of attention, compliments, and wants to take you places with his friends and family. Also, he suddenly wants to both share his feelings with you, and hear and listen to your feelings

2). Start showing him a bit more interest and see how they respond.

This could be as simple as looking into his eyes, or actually coming out and flirting with him, it depends on how gutsy you feel, but showing him that you’re interested too could be a crucial way of knowing how he feels about you.

3). Note his body language.

Does his upper torso seem to be pointed towards you when you’re around? Are his feet pointed toward you? Does he ever mimic your movement? Ever fidget? These are all signs that a boy gives off subconsciously that are signs of interest and he doesn’t even realize that he’s doing it! That’s the fun part. But do look out for those kinds of signs and anything else that’s non verbal.

4). He will ask you out.

If a guy is into you, he will ask you out, or he’ll most definitely go out with you when you ask him first. There are no exceptions to that rule, unless he was with someone else at the time and wants to be true to them. So unfortunately, if a guy does not go out with you when you ask him out, he does not like you.

5). Ask him!

Just ask him directly if all else fail, let him know your feelings. After you have shared yours, ask him how he feels about you. Try not to act outwardly hurt if his feelings are not the same as yours; after all, you asked him. It will also save a lot of time and you will not daydream without any guarantees that something will ever happen between you two. Finally. if he likes you and not as his friend, then you are on the right path.

How about if he is not attracted to me?

Once you know fairly sure that he is not attracted to you, then it is time to take action. Put together a step-by-step plan for getting him to fall for you. But, how to make him feel attracted to me?

Well, there’s a way around to make him fall for you. The way around is to start doing the things that always work to create INTENSE ATTRACTION inside a man. You need to know what it is that makes a man feel this kind of attraction for you.

You need to learn the specifics tips for how to create that kind of attraction inside a man, whether you’re just meeting him, or you’ve been together for months or years.

When you do the things that are sure to make a man feel that gut level attraction that goes deeper than just his physical attraction and desires, then he’ll do and try anything to be close to you.

Is it amazing? Yes, of course. What you have to do is to learn. It’s a skill and it is not a magic, and I honestly believe that any woman can learn it if she wants.



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Snoop Dogg – Sensual Seduction (dirty)

BengalBeatz asked:


Snoop Dogggz new video crazy he was so damn high haha but i like the track kinda like t-pain

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