Sexual attraction is an elusive and fickle thing – some of the ugliest people on the planet enjoy the admiration of the opposite sex for no apparent reason and some of them even exhibit unfortunate table manners or poor hygiene!  There is no explaining the foibles of the human mind when it comes to physical attraction and fancying someone; chemistry takes over and we simply cave in to our emotions.

There are times when we are attracted not just to the person but to the way they present themselves.  Loving the way someone wears their hair or their clothes can be a potent ingredient for sexual attraction, psychological articles assure us.  Baby boomers with plenty of cash to splash have the advantage of being able to stay in fashion, fund cosmetic enhancements and undergo quite serious makeovers from time to time.  Don’t like your nose? Change it!  Don’t like your hair? Dye it! Probably the only thing we cannot change is our height, although built up heels can make a difference for those with a complex. 

Makeover can travel a number of different paths: baby boomers who simply want a change of scenery might get a new hairdo or have their eyelashes dyed or be brave enough to have a tattoo (each to his own…)  Others feel they can only feel regenerated by having a breast lift or reduction; liposuction; botox; tummy tuck or hair transplant.  People who opt for a radical makeover usually accomplish the transformation in stages to avoid scaring the neighbors.

Start with the mirror.  Be critical and decide which of your features are quite attractive and which are definitely due for a change.  Consider whether they can be changed by cosmetic therapies and treatments rather than by drastic surgery.  Consult your dentist and see if he (of she) thinks that some dental work is possible to improve your smile and then use it.  Psychological articles recommend that smiling can extend our life expectancy as well as enhance our appearance! 

Should you decide that surgery is the only solution, be sure to consult a surgeon with faultless credentials and testimonials.

When it comes to clothes, baby boomers know their own minds about what suits them and don’t mind spending cash to keep up with the latest fashions. There are one or two basic guidelines which some people miss such as always matching nail polish to lipstick; always matching shoes to purses and other accessories; never wearing blue and green together; never wearing white stilettos with anything but a white dress and never with jeans.  For you baby boomers dressing for sexual attraction, there are no hard and fast rules – only sensible guidelines that will hopefully prevent you from blundering into the realms of Mutton Dressed as Lamb!

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In our ordinary life it happens that you lose general interest in life or some routine work. It can be the act of going to club or library of at the place where you work. Suddenly it happens that you start taking keen interest in these things; and the reason for such dramatic change is a person whom you like to see again and again. This factor that has put life in your activities is called the ‘attraction’ towards a particular person.

Attraction can be called as a special quality in a man or a woman; the quality that encourages the allurement in others. It leads to a feeling to be together with that person.

If you are dating a person, to know the reasons for your attraction is essential. If you search for these reasons, it can help you to build up a lasting and happy relationship. While searching for the reason of your attraction towards a person you should take into consideration the very principle of attraction itself. You can call this knowing about the rules of attraction of theory of attraction.

The attraction is a general term we use for the passion that drags us towards a particular person. If we dissect the term ‘attraction’ we would find clearly defined three factors that compose the total shape of it. These factors play important role in making one person attracted to another. Let us see what these factors are.

Physical attractiveness: Yes, the natural face and body that we have has its crucial importance in attracting the other persons towards us, especially the person of the opposite sex.

Living in Vicinity: If two persons live in nearby and their meetings are frequent, then there are all the chances that they would find themselves attracted towards each other by passing of the time.

Similarity Of tastes: You we have met a person who shares many of our interests; surely he or she would create a special kind of attraction for us. All of these three aspects, in addition to some other factors too, constitute the happening of general attraction for a particular parson.

For reading other interesting articles about dating, you can visit the following links.

THE THEORIES OF ATTRACTION

MAKE DATING LASTING RELATIONSHIP

Derek Arden has been invited to the Customer Services Training Conference at the Dominion Theatre to deliver a negotiation skills master class.

Developing your ability to build rapport can help build confidence and contribute to a more rewarding lifestyle with friends, colleagues and family. Sometimes it will come naturally but there will be times where someone important to your success is not on your wavelength and you will need to work at building the relationship. We cover 6 steps to achieving this quickly.

Key 1 – Respect: You must learn to respect the other persons perspective in order to build rapport. You can’t build rapport if you are uncertain or not confident in your role for the situation. To create rapport you must do it from a position of respect and need to understand them and seek win-win outcomes.

Key 2 – Matching & Mirroring: People like people who are like them so a sure way to build rapport is to be like them. When you have rapport you will find yourself copying each other’s body postures,movements, voice tone, pace and breathing. Be open and willing to be influenced by another persons perspectives.

Key 3 – Pacing & Leading: Having created your foundation a person is unlikely to accept your views and goals unless they can form an attachment to them. Pacing is the process of matching the other person’s unique perception to increase rapport. Once you have gained a good level of rapport by pacing begin to lead and influence the other person or group. If rapport is lost then you should resort back to pacing.

Key 4 – Develop your Feedback Sense: You will need to sharpen your senses to spot changes in yourself and others that usually go un-noticed. This is called “sensory acuity”. You will need to spot whether the other person is with you or not.

Key 5 – Give people time to think: In any conversation people need time to think about what they are listening to and observing. Having the sensory acuity to notice when a person is processing in downtime is fundamental to rapport building, pacing & leading and ultimately effective communication.

Key 6 – Observe communication modes: There are 4 major communication modes -Visual, Auditory,Internal Dialogue and Kinaesthetic.

Visual Mode: Use language like “do you see what I mean?” or “let’s zoom in on this.”

Auditory Mode: Use language like: “I hear what you say” or “it sounds OK to me.”

Internal Dialogue Mode: This indicates your partner processes information via an inner voice.

Kinaesthetic Thinking Mode: Your partner processes information by feel. Use language like “this feels just right” or “let’s keep in touch”

Knowing how a person communicates is very useful in getting on the same wavelength as them.

By following these 6 keys you will be able to create successful interractions with all varieties of individuals and with different values in mind.

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We’ve all watched the scenes in movies where the leading man walks into the room/bar/wherever, and all heads immediately turn and take notice, as if by magic. Then, again as if by magic, the most beautiful woman in the room also rises and moves inexorably toward him, setting up the inevitable meeting. While this may seem hokey, and in some films it undoubtedly is, there is a real element to this type of attraction.  Let’s take a look at how this happens.

The first thing to know is that it doesn’t happen by accident. There is work involved. But the good news is that this can be achieved by anyone, and it doesn’t take years of gym memberships to bring it about. Yes, working out is part of it, as is a sensible diet plan designed to rid you of excess fat.

Creating an ideal male form, with the classic “V” shape is not out of your reach. And the benefits of attaining such a shape are many.  Not only will you find yourself practically irresistible to women, you’ll find that you can hold sway over a number of areas, including friendships, relationships and even your business associations. Who wouldn’t want to work, love, or be friends with someone who obviously has their personal life so well put together, as evidenced by the way they look? Now, whether all that is true about you remains to be seen, but it’s nice to have a leg up on the competition!

Many studies have shown that this classic form, based on what is known as the “Golden Ratio” (1:1.618) can and has been used for centuries to create not only classic works of art and architecture, but has been found to have a basis in nature as well. Simply put, women go crazy for this type of body. It speaks to our very basest nature indeed, to have such an animalistic response to a perfect male form. Women can’t seem to stay away from you, and you are the Alpha male wherever you choose to go, simply because of your build and the air of confidence it brings with it.

Not only women react this way, but potential business associates as well. Who would pass up an opportunity to do business with such a man? You’ve actually seen this at work many times before now. Think back to the times you’ve witnessed the best looking guy, (or even girl, for the purpose of this illustration) who walks in and snags the best job or deal not because they were the most qualified, but simply because they looked great. Might not be fair, but hey, who said life was fair? Now, this is not to say they are incapable of screwing up said opportunity, but at least they got a shot.

Put it to the test!

For more cool info on this subject, check out this article: Fat Burning Principles

An excerpt from a presentation on influence shows Charles Carpenter, known as Bill The Builder by audiences, using illustration and humor to engage the audience. You can book Bill for seminars, keynotes or custom training solutions at www.charlesspeaks.com or calling 937-935-6789

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