Some women attract men like magnet but for others, attracting men is a very difficult task. Although it is true that a woman’s personality is more important, you cannot ignore the fact that men are physical and the first thing that catches their attention is the physical appearance of women. To make a good first impression with men it is important to know how to be physically attractive to men. Here are some tips:

Be healthy and in good shape. If you want to be physically attractive to men, of course you need to make an effort to stay fit and healthy. If you are overweight, then you have to loose your extra weight. Being fit will not only improve your physical looks but it will also make you healthy. Self discipline is important. Avoid unhealthy and fattening foods. Eat a well balanced diet and exercise regularly. Men find healthy and fit women attractive.

Practice good hygiene. Practicing cleanliness is not only for good appearance but it is your responsibility as a woman to appear clean and fresh all the time. Your clothes and shoes must be clean. Keep your nails clean; moisturize your skin to appear clean and healthy. Your teeth must be clean all the time and use mouthwash to keep a fresh breath and avoid bad breath. Use deodorant to avoid body odor.

Good grooming. Aside from practicing good hygiene, it is also important to know how to groom yourself to be physically attractive to men. Wear the type of clothes that fits your personality. Know how to wear make up properly and maintain an easy to manage hairstyle. Good grooming doesn’t have to be expensive but you just have to know what looks good on you that fit your budget. Do not go out in public unpolished because you wouldn’t want to meet your prince charming unprepared, right?

Know how to flaunt your assets. Everyone is a unique individual and of course you have good physical features that others don’t have. It is best that you know how to use your assets to be physically attractive to men than focus on your flaws. If you have great legs, then wear shorts or skirts once in a while. If you have nice shoulders then a sleeveless blouse will look good on you. Just always remember not to appear cheap and trying hard.

Everyone wants to be attractive but of course it will be difficult to look like those adored supermodels. Being beautiful does not mean you have to be born with excellent physical features but in your own little way you can be physically attractive to men.

Attraction is an art that can be learned. With patience and right techniques, you can be the woman every guy wants. To become irresistibly attractive, visit How To Be Irresistible To Men.

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Building rapport as a hypnotist is very important.  As you improve your rapport skills you will be improving your overall skill as a hypnotist.  In saying that it is important to be aware of the common mistakes made in building rapport.

The ability to have great rapport with your subjects is one of the first tools you will encounter needing as a hypnotist.  Common mistakes made in this area are hard to identify as ‘mistakes’ unless you are aware of what they are.

The first most common mistake made is simply trying to be too nice.  Of course you should be nice to people.  But there is a point in time in certain relationships when the line must be drawn.

In order to develop a deep rapport with people you need to have full communication.  This means that everything that needs to be said must be said, even if it is unpleasant.  Not having full communication can disable you from sharing important thoughts, ideas and feelings.

The basic rule to follow here is to be nice but not at the expense of real communication.  Say what needs to be said.  If you do not the rapport will break down and a barrier will start to go up.

Most people have experienced one end or the other of trying to be too nice.  One example is we are often too busy with politeness to show our true selves.

The other end of the spectrum is we encounter people who are trying too hard to be nice to us.  Either way you look at it, a wall is constructed and these people remain casual acquaintances.  We often have the same exact conversations with these people and never truly build a lasting rapport with them because there is no real communication happening.

The second mistake that is often made when attempting to build rapport is trying too hard.  Yes this is closely related to the first mistake.  When we try too hard we send signals of desperation.  It shows that we are too eager to please or desperate for company.

No one likes to be surrounded with desperate people.  The air of desperation often causes those around it to feel obligated or under a lot of pressure.  Both of these feelings can completely shut down communication.

Trying too hard is a mistake that can lead to the “Law of Reversed Effect”.  The “Law of Reversed Effect” means the harder you try, the more likely you will fail.  This is because you are actually interfering with the unconscious process.

When you try too hard you are not falling into a gentle rhythm where rapport is produced you are trying to force a relationship that is not ready yet.  Maintaining a sense of what needs to happen to create rapport is essential to your success.

Once you recognize what needs to happen you should let your unconscious take over and implement the steps itself.  ‘Instant rapport technique’ will help with this later in another article.

The third mistake that is common in hypnosis is to want something from someone too much.  This mistake is again closely related to the first two mistakes.

When we want something too much we often become pushy and overwhelming, especially so to the subconscious.  Once an individual has pushed too much their counterpart will back off or become disinterested.  Salesmen encounter this often.

There is a solution for this.  ‘Fractionating rapport’ will help you to pace yourself in the amount of intimacy you seek.  In fractionation you work on building a little rapport and then leave it alone for a while.  Let the subject come and re-engage you.  Each time you repeat the process you will be digging deeper and deeper into a comfort zone and building a strong rapport with the person.

This technique keep people in their comfort zones, and you are only stretching that zone a little each time you go through the motions.  Soon conversation, give and take, push and pull will become a natural and familiar habit.

Being too nice to people, trying too hard and wanting something too much, all have simple solutions to help you become successful.

If you are being too nice to your subjects, stop and remember there is a point at which you must stop being nice to save the rapport.

If you are trying too hard with your subjects implement the ‘instant rapport technique’.  This will allow the unconscious to send the normal rapport signals to you through your subject.

And if you want something too much, stop doing it and use fractionation.  Soon over a small amount of time you will have built many steps to great rapport.

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When building a rapport with other people there are various mistakes that can be detrimental to the developing relationship.  Three of the most common mistakes made when building rapport are trying too hard, being too nice and wanting something too much.  All of these are easily remedied as are the three worst mistakes you can make when building a rapport with people.  The key is being able to recognize the mistake and know the solution.

When refining the skill of building rapport the first of three detrimental mistakes you can make is to show a lack of genuine interest.  This is shown through signals given off by body language.

When you are focused and genuinely interested in what another person is saying your body responds in ways others pick up on a subconscious level.  These signals range from a change in body language and pupil dilation to your actual focusing signals.

If you are bored or showing disinterest people will often respond by turning off.  They may show you that they are annoyed with you or simply lose interest as well.  Two people having a conversation where neither is interested will damage rapport to say the least.

There are two solutions to this first problem.  One is the idea of ‘tracking back’.  Track back is similar to active listening.  In track back you repeat the same words back to the speaker, in the same language they used.  This shows you are interested, keeps your mind on track and clarifies what is being discussed.

You can also apply a track back frame in this skill.  This is simply a set of words that frame the exact phrase you are repeating back.  “So what you’re saying is…”

Active listening is different in that you repeat back what the speaker has said using your own words.  The dilemma with this is that when you change the words and language you will often change the emotional meaning and tone of the words.

All language has a neurological effect on people and when you change the emotional meaning of a phrase you can accidentally change the entire meaning.   If you change or lose the meaning of what your speaker is saying it may appear that you weren’t listening at all.  Again creating the idea that you are disinterested in your speaker’s thoughts and ideas.

The other solution to this problem is to take the advice of Carl Rogers.  Rogers was a great psychologist in the early 1900’s.  Carl Rogers said that you should always have a high regard for the other person.

No matter what you think of them under other circumstances, if you are trying to build a lasting rapport you must find a way to convince yourself 100% what they are saying is worthy of respect.

When you accomplish this you will accomplish the task of opening up your speaker.  You are saying with your body and subconscious signals that they will not be criticized or attacked; you are in a safe place.  In order to develop rapport your subject needs to feel safe in order to share feelings and ideas with you.

The next horrible mistake you can make while trying to build rapport is to play the wrong role within a relationship.  When two people are building rapport their relationship can fluctuate.

There are three different roles you can take on in every relationship you are creating.  These consist of a high status, low status and equal status.  This has nothing to do with your annual income it is merely a place within a relationship.  For example an instructor usually has the high status in interaction with a student, and the student has the lower status.

Now it seems that status would naturally fall into place within conversation, right?  The problem with this is that there are people who are unable to take on different status themselves.  They need to be led into a new status.

If you are dealing with a person who only likes to be in a high status and you attempt to take away their role for yourself they will not be comfortable.  In fact this will usually result in them disliking you and distrusting you.

You must learn to be a flexible communicator.  If you have the ability to take on whatever status is necessary you will be able to open communication with anyone and start a rapport.  Once you have done this you can slowly change your levels as they follow your lead and adapt to you.

Keep in mind the ‘pacing and leading’ principal here.  You can only travel through the different status roles as quickly as your subject will comfortably follow.

The final vital mistake you can make in your rapport building is to neglect a wide rapport and build only a deep rapport.  A deep rapport is when you base your entire interaction with a person on one subject, interest or environment.  This type of rapport will get you deep in that area alone quickly.

It is in your better interest to have a wide rapport so people can relate to you on many different levels.  A wide rapport gives a person many different experiences of you in many different environments, interests and subjects.

This is important as it does not limit you.  Your subject can feel comfortable talking with you in many places about many different ideas, feelings and thoughts.

There are two ways to create wide rapport.  One is to meet in different locations to conduct your interactions.  This could be enjoyable but time consuming.  The other is to develop wide rapport through story telling.

Story telling offers you an endless amount of places, topics, themes and ideas you can open your subject up to.  The more sense of your complete personality they have the more comfortable they will be in building rapport.

As you continue to talk about different topics your subject will eventually be willing to open up to you about anything.  There are many different techniques and uses for story telling that you will learn throughout your hypnosis training.

Now that you are aware of the common mistakes and pitfalls of building rapport you can use the simple solutions provided to refine your skills.  Always keep in mind that the better your rapport building skills the better you will be in the act of hypnosis.

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