The Physical Attraction Factor – Episode #15
Saturday, May 1st, 2010 at
5:07 pm
Physical Attraction is one of the four factors and is the desire to be physically close to your partner. I discuss this factor in detail, and even mention Mary Ann and Ginger from Gilligan’s Island.
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@risquette See my comment on your other post about these little things.
@risquette My belief is that on the first meeting you weren’t overwhelmingly physically attracted to her if on the 2nd or 3rd date you had doubts. Also, the little things annoying you… you may want to think about this since this is the type of thing that can get in the way of being with anyone. I’m just saying.
I meant little things about their appearance annoy me, such as a nose or her height. This is frustrating, because I thought I liked them before.
The other unfortunate issue is that I although my attraction to another person does not go up, it may drastically go down. On the second or third time I see them I end up saying to myself, “how is it possible that I found her attractive?” then I end up waiting until one more date to reconfirm.
I find little things that are wrong and they start to annoy me. I can’t seem to stop it.
@risquette It sounds like you’ve got the idea of what I’m saying. That is for most guys they know right away if they are physically attracted to a woman and this level of physical attraction won’t change dramatically over the life of the relationship. So if you’re not strongly physically attracted to them right from the start you likely won’t be as the relationship progresses.
@risquette Thanks for the comment. A couple things: Attractiveness is very subjective. A woman who u r not attracted to may be very attractive to other guys. Also, the reason you may have fun winning over those you find less attractive is b/c you are more relaxed and more yourself, thus making you more attractive to them.
…however, I am now confused by the four ratings of attraction in this video. Since I am high testosterone ( i.e. I have never grown to find someone _more_ attractive ) , I want to know right away whether I _Should_ or _Should not_ pursue someone based on how attractive I find them.
I don’t want to waste any more time constantly tricking myself into thinking I may be attracted to someone later on.
I was watching the Physical Attraction and Testosterone video and I thought I finally understood that—as a high testosterone guy—I can either be attracted to a woman or not; the process is pass or fail. The problem is I have had way too many relationships fail because I was with someone I was not attracted to.
Attractive people are so difficult to find, but it can be fun getting good at winning over the ones that are very inaccessible because they are so attractive.
offer them a piece of gum
how would you tell someone to work on their oral hygiene ? i don’t know how to tell people things like that